2008

Howdy friends! It's been sometime since I blogged eh? Ok, yea yea, it has been really a long time since I last posted my blog. Been real busy and yea gotta admit a little lazy. What can you expect? It's the vacations and I have been working as well, at my bar during the Christmas period wearing the geeky 'Santa' hat where I received lots of smiling feedbacks from customers. Christmas was actually monotonous for me this year where I actually fall ill. Yea again! Damn my immune system was really dead in 2007 and I gotta admit the truth. I don't recall how many pills I have consumed. So much so I got pretty afraid I became a 'drug' addict. To tell you the truth, I despised taking those damn pills. I hardly get sick and 2007 was the worst . My body just malfunctioned.

Anyway 2007 is gone! And now is Jan 1st 2008 and HAPPY NEW YEAR people. This is my year. Yea you got that right. It's the year of the rat in the Chinese calender. 2007 was quite bad actually eh? Had lots of natural disasters, basically lots of earth quakes and not to mention the death rate which tolled up to a freaking amount. Let's hope 2008 will be good and people listen up. You make the 2008!:)

One of my resolutions for 2008 is meeting new people and making more friends. No, not just the females.. Haha.. But also the males. Making a friend is not easy for some people I must admit and I use to be one of the coy people where I hardly make the first move to speak with an unknown stranger. They say "Do not Speak with strangers." The thing is if I do not speak with an unknown person, how do I make a friend? Odd eh? Now let me change the phrase. "Speak with an unknown person and make a friend every single day!" Making new friends is like buying new clothes. The only difference is new clothes would bore a person after wearing it for countless times but friends never. Friends are like special siblings. They are the one we pour our shit out. Not even our family knows all our stuff but friends do. So have a goal everyday. "When I get out of the house, I need to speak with an unknown person." It don't have to be with a 'real' unknown person. It can be the hawker centre lady, the petrol kiosk man who fills up your tank, the newspaper lady or anyone where you can strike a simple conversation like "Hey how's it going?" or "Hi, how's your day?" Tell you the truth. It is said in a study that people appreciate another person who actually cares about asking how their day was or striking any small talk. We are humans. We need to constantly communicate and show love and concern.

Speaking about love and concern, try to show them everyday. When your mum cooks something for you, even if it's a simple dish, tell her it's awesome and you love it. Even when she's at her negative mood, she'll morph to a positive mood. When your dad comes back from work, ask him how's his day was. Even it was a bad day, he'll feel good you ask him and he'll definitely tell you because you care about asking him. It's a simple chore but we humans mostly avoid doing it. Don't do it just to your family. Do it to everyone around you. Maybe some people will go, "Dude, you gotta be practical man." Yea, I know it may not sound practical but I wanna try. I wanna make people happy. I ain't saying I would not get a bad day but bad days never come everyday. If someone is happy, it makes me happy and if it is because of me the opposite party starts smiling and laughing, I'll be even more glad. Though one claims with money happiness can be bought, but I never support that phrase. Materialistic happiness is never lasting one. It's more like a 'cheap' thrill. I wanna real happiness where I can feel the vibe through my body hopefully every single day. That is what real happiness is about. So people make your 2008 and useful and and worthy one. Cheers!

Deepavali Doggedness

Heya beautiful people. First of all before I start, Happy Deepavali to all people in Singapore. Wait a min. Let's say that to the whole world. Happy Deepavali World. Anyway, wondering why I am blogging on this day? Well, I was thinking, since this is a special day for celebration, it would also be the best day to come out with my resolutions. Yea I know New year's around the corner but I feel there's no point in procrastinating about what I wanna achieve. I reckon it's always good to start the good stuff earlier and there's no point holding back. I'm really worn out now but I feel I need to put these important stuff down so I'll know I won't be contradicting myself and there will always be a prick in my heart if I don't do it. Alright, enough talk and let's start the ball rolling with my resolutions.

1) Read the Newspaper daily

I have not been reading it for sometime and I feel guilty. It's one of the easy source of information around the world.

2) Brush the teeth twice, use floss and Listerine.

I know this may sound rather hillarious but hey wait! I do brush my teeth in the morning but sometimes due being too exhausted I sleep without realizing cleaning it at night.. :)

3) Buck up for the UTs

I have been doing alright in class but getting shitty UT grades so sometimes I wonder what's the point doing well in class assignment but suck at UT? GPA doesn't turn out well so I need to do better in UTs as well.

4) Be prepared for UTs and not do last min revision

I have been doing this most of the time and I reckon it plays apart for my crappy grades. So no more.

5) Finish up reading all my Health Magazines by the month

I use to be very engrossed in stuff like this( my fav mag) but nowadays I have been getting pretty lazy and I don't wanna continue with that.

6) Get rid of my excess fats on my belly

I use to be pretty overweight before so getting it down brought me another annoying present, excess fats. It is very tough to get rid of them I admit but Yes! It's possible. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.

7) Bring my waist size of 34 to 32

I think 32 and 33 are the best size for guys. Of course I need to work on my lower body especially the glutes. Not tofu butt but firm tush. Something to hold on to. Haha.

8) Exercise on weekdays

Weekends I wanna rest plus I got work to occupy myself. Monday and Wednesday would be Cardio Workouts and Tue and Thurs would be heading down to the gym. Yes, I'm officially gonna use the school gym. I was thinking about what my friend Andrew was saying and yes, why waste the school facilities? We are paying for it anyway. Oh yea, Friday would be either gym or Cardio. I wanna fit myself into the medium white t-shirt and blue jeans. It's my aim.

9) Prevent eating junk and greasy food as much as possible

It's not easy to prevent from these food. I'm am exactly a fan of junk food but greasy food isn't that easy to avoid but like I said as much as possible. Sometimes definitely I would wanna indulge in these food, I'm human after all. :) P:S: Avoiding choc chip muffin and fishball crackers is never easy.

10) Sleep by 2245 every single weekday

Humans need at least 7 hours of sleep and I happen to wake up by 6am everyday. So I need adequate amount of sleep to feel fresh for class and for the day.

Alright these are my 10 resolutions and I strongly wanna follow it. Maybe you guys feel I'm like leaving a routine lifestyle. I ain't. These are good for me anyway. You need to write down stuff like these so you'll know you need to follow or you'll feel damn guilty. I have been telling few people I will come up with a blog about my past and I feel I should. I don't think I need to hide about it. It ain't pleasant but the past, most of the time make you a stronger person though one should not dwell into it all the time. Not healthy. I am coming out with most probably in my next post so hang on to your pants people and once again Happy Deepavali to the world. Have you done your resolutions?

Seoul Garden Part II

Yo people. Went out with W24C.. Alright let's not overstate it.. Only 4 people came..But nevertheless we had fun and it was kind of a new experience for my Sri Lankan pal, Nigilan. He learning how to use chopsticks now. Mine sucks as well but the thing is, I can hold it! Anyway we took some pics and we are suppose to hang out, the whole of W24C, next week on Friday. Tentatively it is ice-skating and yes, I miss ice-skating. It's helluva fun and the irony part is, you can perspire in a cold place. Cold sweat, I reckon. Anyway check out the pics and have a good one people. Peace out.

Gruesome, Threesome..

The guys in Seoul Garden..

Emily.."BLOWING" the chicken.. Haha..

"Cheena" Woman and "Tamil" Woman.. Both trying their best to act cute but in vain.. :)


Mabel.. Sigh.. Trying to act cute as well..

Master piece..


I specially like this pic of mine.. It was taken by Mabel without me realizing. Like I am in a 'deep' thought..

I forgot about taking pic with Eunice. (Sorry darling)..Haha.. I tried to take photo with Nigilan but the dude is coy. Will be taking with you soon dude.. And dude, don't be upset man. We are all here for you.. Smile Bro..

Weigh

Hey amigos and amigas. Freaking long time eh? I mean my update? Actually it isn't that long compared to the last time where Dom was nagging me to update which theoretically speaking, I didn't write in a new post for nearly two months. Yea that long. But that was because I was really tied up. So much so my cousin was saying, "Dude, take a break, have a wank!" Haha. Anyway I was actually wanting to update earlier, it's just the title where I was dissecting about alot. Yea, I was practically thinking about the correct title for this blog for some days. Call me a perfectionist, but I feel if you wanna write about an article or post, the title must be right. It's just like a movie. Titles sometimes intrigue people to watch a movie.

I was asking Dom but he misunderstood me. He thought I wanna the title for my blog page where he was saying, "Do not offer me a comb!" That was hillarious but when I told him that actually it's the title, he too was laughing. It's typical of Dom to think differently, in a joking manner actually because that dude is a typical joker. His way of thinking differently to come up with a joke is awesome. Plus he's witty as well. Which chick doesn't wanna the combo in a dude? Oh yea I forgot. It's women we are talking about. Known for complications. Haha. Alright ladies, no hard feelings, ain't a sexist as well. But it's kind of a fact isn't it? As I was showering today, I came up with the title. Funny place to get stuff like that eh? But maybe even Einstein came up with the last formula to make the Atomic bomb while he's answering nature's call? Who knows?

So you must me wondering what's up with the weigh topic right? It feels damn right, the title. I wanted to talk about something really badly, you know to help couples or should I even say 'going to be couples' too. Applicable for everyone. You guys may go, "What do you know about relationships? You are not even attached." Hell yea, I am not and I am not intending to be soon because I love women so much that it's tough to practice monogamy. Haha! Alright that was a joke but this is the truth. I get experienced through other people's experiences.

I need to ask a question to you people. When a man is attached to a woman, does that mean he forgets his friends? Does that mean she becomes his everything? Like if he gotta go somewhere, it's always she who's tagging? It always a 'she' 'she' and 'she'. The same goes to ladies. Is it always a 'he' 'he' and 'he'? I'm being frank here. I'll get literally bored. No offense to the couples out there, but I am being serious here and normally when the above happens, that's how couples cheat each other, that's how they end the relationship with each other, that's how a sweet relationship turns sour. Maybe you people will go, "Wait till you are in a relationship, then you'll be the same". No. I won't. I would never do what most couples do. Why do these problems start? I give you an example.

Fred(not his real name), happen to be dating this girl called Mona(Not her real name). They were so in love with each other and doing things basically with each other all the time. Eat together, go to school together, go back home together and basically see each other every single day. They call the first three months the 'honey moon' period right? So what happens once the three months end? Fred happen to get busy with school work and he realized seeing his girlfriend everyday was a chore and not like going to heaven. It's no more 'to the moon and back' but 'to the hell and back'. He became bored seeing his gf. He lost his close buddies where once they go "through thick and thin", because he was avoiding them once he gotta attached. So what happen? Well, he started avoiding his gf, not totally but because 'now' he needed his friends. He started telling lots of fibs to his gf just not to meet her all the time. His gf became confused with her bf. She started becoming possessive and keep asking him, "What's wrong?" and also, "Do you still love me?" He became depressed and she became depressed. I saw him online in Msn the other day and he came talking to me. I happen to know him and his gf and I know this would happen between them.

"Dude, it's not that I don't like her, though she is questioning my loyalty and love for her nowadays. It's just that a man needs his space. You, I and she needs her space. We all need it. She's sticking to me like glue and I feel uncomfortable." From the way he write, I know he is feeling tensed. I replied him sarcastically, "Dude, wow. You are speaking so wisely now. If only you have practiced it earlier, you wouldn't be in this shit. " Then Fred said, "Dude, help me. I love her but I need my space. I have been lying to her a lot, just to avoid her but I don't want to. What can I do?"

Women, by and large, are more perceptive than men. They can instantly identify insincerity and bullshit. So to make a lie 'believable', a guy has to be a real actor but the question is even though he is one, how long can he concoct? Fred's gf wasn't the only one at fault, but Fred himself was the culprit. The reason why his gf became demanding and possessive was because of him. He played the 'game' with her together . He 'give in' to her in everything. Like going to school, eating and seeing her all the time. So what happens when suddenly he stops? She will definitely find it odd. She can't accept Fred's attitude. She becomes melodramatic. It's not her fault. It's Fred who started it. The more Fred gives in to her, the more she becomes demanding. It's not only women. It's Men as well. Most humans tend to take advantage of something when everything is falling on their laps. They take things for granted. Like Fred, he nearly lost his buddies. Why is it when one is attached, the friends suffer the consequences? Why are the friends punished for no freaking reason? You mean to tell me, friends are just there to pass time and once getting attached, friends are forgotten? But I thought the friends came first before the 'significant other' ? So you only go back to your friends if you happen to have problems in your relationship? That's fucking selfish. What do you take friends for? A ride?

I am going to tell you people what one gotta do when you are in a relationship or going to be in a relationship. I may be wrong and some might hit me with coarse languages now but this is how I feel.

1)Do not see your other gf or bf every single day. You'll get bored. Trust me. We all do so don't fib with me.

2) Do not do every single thing with your gf or bf. True, couples do most things together but refrain from it.

3) Do not forget your friends. Your true pals will always be there for you. Never forget them. Never take them for a ride.

4) Do not talk in the phone the whole day with your gf or bf. I see my cousin doing that with his gf most of the time and I wonder if he'll ever get bored and become dehydrated. I am not saying not to speak with your partner. Speak, but minimize it to maybe 30mins per day? Or the most, 1 hour.

5) Please for God's sake, give each other your space, male and female. All of us need our space or we'll feel uncomfortable.

6) Try to see your partner once or twice a week because you'll definitely be eager to see them.

I advised Fred from to do all the above, I have explained. But first I told him to go and have an open chat with his gf. Tell him how he feels and what they should do. He's doing that now and he claims him seeing his gf on Fri, make him excited. The more you delay from doing or seeing something or someone( I mean the things you want to do), the more you wanna see or do it. So challenge yourself. In future, when I get my gf, I'll explain this terms to her. Alright don't say terms because it sounds like a treaty. Haha. Just say something both of us should talk about and understand and do it. So anybody wanna be my gf? I am sorry, I don't practice monogamy. Haha.

Brawns

I was in the Bus 39 today and I was analyzing how fit I was during the national service days. I use to be 79kg when I went in the national service so coming down to 66kg was a major achievement and I was fit. In fact you can even see my abs on my belly. I wouldn't say they were fully develop but I had 4 of them. The last two was tough to achieve because I do have excess fats. If I had fully concentrated in my workouts, I would have achieved them but I lost my concentration and discipline. Damn. Now you can hardly see the abs. I told myself I need to get back to NS fitness. In fact even fitter than that. I always wanna abs and pecs. Not exactly for the women but mostly for myself. And I wanna fit my body into a white T-shirt and blue jeans. The hunky and lean type of look.

I realized I have become lazier and it's time to start the ball rolling with my workouts. Of course, my diet is also important. I need to be more discipline now. If I wanna a body, it most probably will be like Tyrese. (The dude who acted in 2 fast 2 furious). I remember there was one part of the movie where he took of his start and all the women go "WOW!". Haha. Anyway, I am gonna use him as a motivation. Time to Rock and Roll.

Here are two pictures of him..

Embrace or Smooch?

Hey. What's up to all the amigos and amigas? Just to inform all those caring and loving people out there, I'm doing fine. I guess my departure on Tuesday was rather alarming isn't it? Well, yea, I was going through stress, to put it in short. Feeling uncomfortable rather lately because of some various reasons and after a good chat with a good friend of mine, a psychologist and a facilitator in school, I am doing fine. I guess everyone go through shitty times and mine just happen lately. I gotta say it was a hell of a period and I'm still recovering(I will be lying if I said I had fully recovered) and wanting to think and be positive all the time. I guess in life we gotta face the good and the bad and it's inevitable. We can't run away from it no matter where we wanna hide.

Anyway, today is my pleasure to talk about something I experience a few days ago and it made wanna write about it in this post. Funny, a small incident can make you analyze alot. Don't you think so? The wonders of our mind. Back to the topic, I was in Bus 81, with my maternal side cousin heading down to Kovan Bus-stop(the stop where it leads to Kovan Mrt Station). We were sitting at the back seat with a woman who was carrying one young child, sleeping, on her chest while two other children sleeping on the seat beside her. The kids look rather exhausted. To dissect the long story a little, the mum and I began chatting. She was asking us where we were alighting so we claim it's the Kovan Bus-stop. A smile came to her face because she was alighting at the same bus-stop. She then asked both my cousin and I, a favor which we never would have expected and truthfully both of us were taken aback. Since she was carrying one child on her arms, she asked us to carry the other female child sleeping on the seat.(The third child woke up in the midst of the conversation and my cousin heaved a sigh of relief because he was rather coy in carrying a child and the knucklehead was looking at me with the pity plus cheeky look which showed "Hey, you are gonna carry the child.) I admit I was erm uncomfortable initially carrying an unknown kid and I was thinking really deeply how to pick the kid up carefully and not spoil her beauty sleep which might piss her off if I did and kick me in the nuts. Haha. Okay that is an overstatement but it is possible.:) The bus-stop came and I picked the kid from the seat. Guess what? After instantly picking her up, I don't regret it anymore. I felt so good because she was really hugging me so tightly. Like a big bear hug. She curled her hands around my neck so tightly like her whole life is safe with me. I really love the feeling. And no friends, I ain't a pedophile. So if your crude mind is going into that, halt! I just love the feeling of a great hug. It's like your miseries can be forgotten in a second by just a hug. I realize how much I have missed a hug from someone. The last time I got a hug was from a close female friend whom I have not met up after so long and she's gonna murder me if I still delay in not seeing her. Haha. That hug she gave me was a friendly one, not exactly a bear hug but still it was good but cannot beat the kid's one. Haha, sorry Yenn, pal.

I was later pondering in the evening, am I a hugging sort of person or the kissing sort. Like for example if you are in a relationship, do you prefer a hug or a kiss? Difficult to choose eh? Let me guess most of you guys would prefer a passionate kiss or the one where you actually devour each other mouths grossly right? Haha, that was crude. Sure a great kiss puts you in the mood or should I say lustly mood? The one where testosterone levels rises really high up. But that is when you share an intimate moment right? Is there such thing as a intimate hug? Hmm, I ain't sure but if there was I am sure groping comes in as well. Let me recall back. The part where I was kissed by a chick. I didn't feel so great after the kiss. I mean it kind of seem weird because one, she was a friend's sister who kissed me on the cheek and I was really feeling awkward because I didn't expect it and it my close pal's sister! My pal didn't know it and I also don't have the intention to tell him. The kiss didn't make my day. I wasn't smiling like posing for Colgate. The only feeling I got was, it was wet. Haha. So here I am with my verdict, I prefer hugging anytime than a smacker. A great hug makes you feel like you can achieve anything in the world. It's like a good drug which makes you feel high. That's the feeling I wanna.

In truth we humans need human contact. It is scientifically proven all living things need contact. We are programmed that way by the divine God. The only reason we humans are preventing ourselves from hugging each other is because of the way our brain thinks sexually all the damn time when for example an opposite or same gender hugs one another. Automatically our brain relates to something sexual and being in the Asian Society, we hardly hug people unlike the Westerners. They hug and even kiss each other on the cheeks. In theory that should be the way. We should show our affection to our friends or anyone we happen to meet. In this way, we are not only showing people, we are their friends but we are showing love to human nature as well. Imagine if all the leaders of the world who happen to get themselves in a verbal conflict and the only way to solve the problem is through hugging. Now, don't you think our world would be a great, peaceful place if that happens? No more conflicts and once when cool is lost by someone automatically give the person a bear hug and the setback would be solved. Awesome eh?

After the incident, I was telling to my cousin about the sensation of a great hug and he too agreed that a good hug makes one day and true enough, I was basically smiling the whole day and feeling all lively. Even my mum was asking why I was feeling so delirious. Even as I am writing this post, I can't prevent myself from forgetting the incident. Hug buddy? Anyone?:)

Random test.

Okay. I was bored so I did some interesting test today which was posted online by some people from other countries. First is "The intellectual Sexiness" test, second is "The nerd, geek or dork" test and the third is "The how fuckable how are you" test. The third sounds abit crude but come on. We definitely wanna do the test somehow if we manage to come across these kinds of test so don't fib to me! Haha.

You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 72!
You're hot! You've read a lot. You've done a lot, and there's a lot you'd like to try in the future. You've got a sharp, sexy mind, and few inhibitions to restrain you from exploring all the pleasure you can get. You have few hang-ups, and there's not much you don't know about sex. You're open-minded and able to enjoy things that would make a lesser person squeamish. You're an exceptional treat as a lover, appreciated greatly by those who know the differnce. You were probably bored with a few of the people you've been with in your past, feeling like you had to drag them along with you in the sexual adventures you want to have, and probably dumping them for the same reason. It takes a lot to stimulate you; you realize it's not just about bumping uglies. In the end there's gotta be a lot more to it. Still, there is always room for improvement. Before you can graduate into a true sexual genius, there are a few things you've got to learn, to explore, to think through, talk through, and fuck through. A good place to start is in taking a look at the few things you're still a little hesitant to try. Break down you're last few barriers and discover the outer sexual frontiers, and you'll become a master.

Your Score: Joe Normal

34 % Nerd, 21% Geek, 8% Dork

A Geek is someone who is passionate about some particular area or subject, often an obscure or difficult one.
A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions.
You scored less than half in all three, earning you the title of: Joe Normal.

This is not to say that you don't have some Nerd, Geek or Dork inside of you--we all do, and you can see the percentages you have right above. This is just to say that none of those qualities stand out so much as to define you. Sure, you enjoy an episode of Star Trek now and again, and yeah, you kinda enjoyed a few classes back in the day. And, once in a while, you stumble while walking down the street even though there was nothing there to cause you to trip. But, for the most part, you look and act fairly typically, and aren't much of an outcast.

Your Score: " The good fuck"

You are 67 fuckable!

You're about as fuckable as most people, which is not bad. Actually, it's quite healthy! You know how to act and what's appropriate. You know when it's the time and place for what. And people can use that to see you erotically. It's no surprise that you can attract a good number of people. You're what they want! A realistic babe who knows when to get a bit wild! Yeah, I'd fuck you!