Hey guys..Check out this video. I feel it's freaking hilarious but in away kind of true. It's a funny video documentary about an asian guy's quest to find answers. Anyway sit back and enjoy it. Later friends..
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Miss Vinod
Hey people. I know I have been slow in my blog post. In fact very slow, until my two brothers Domnic and Jojo have decided to close down my blog without my consent. Haha. Anyway during the holidays one of those days when I was extremely bored I went to my sister's room. They had just bought their new make up set and were delirious over it! A make up kit can make a girl so happy. Sigh!~
Elder sis: It cost me around 20 bucks and there are so many colours to choose! (with a smile on a face like she conquered mount everest)
Younger sis: Yes! It looks so good, you must share with me!
I was like, "Oh god! Girl talk again. I need to scram." When I was about to leave my elder came up with this idea with a cheeky smile on her face.
Elder sis: Vinod, why don't we try applying some on you?
I was like NO! My masculinity was at stake and the last time when I applied make up was when I was involve in a play in kindergarten school. I was the king of China offering my gift to Mother Mary after Jesus was born. It is a Catholic school by the way.
Elder sis: Come on! It's no big deal after all you are at home.
There I was really bored and my intuition was telling me, "Why not?! After all it's just for the fun of it and you can check out the female version of you. So what the hell, let's goof around ." My sisters really got all happy when I gave the green light and it took them one hour to finish up! Jeez, no wonder women take long to dress up. Up went the eyeliner, lipstick, eyeshadow and blusher. They kept laughing non-stop and my male cousin was rolling on the floor clutching his tummy. When I had the chance to look at myself in the mirror, it was gross but funny! I had not shaved for a week and that made it worse! I took some shots and I'm gonna put some in this post. I've one thing to say to the holly divine, "Thank you for making me a male." Haha.
Anyone interested in dating Miss Vinod. Feel free to contact her. HAHA!
Introducing Miss Vinod..
Awww..Check out those lovely eyes and kissable lips..
Who wanna be kissed? I am waiting for you darlings. Damn! Even I am grossed out. Haha.
Elder sis: It cost me around 20 bucks and there are so many colours to choose! (with a smile on a face like she conquered mount everest)
Younger sis: Yes! It looks so good, you must share with me!
I was like, "Oh god! Girl talk again. I need to scram." When I was about to leave my elder came up with this idea with a cheeky smile on her face.
Elder sis: Vinod, why don't we try applying some on you?
I was like NO! My masculinity was at stake and the last time when I applied make up was when I was involve in a play in kindergarten school. I was the king of China offering my gift to Mother Mary after Jesus was born. It is a Catholic school by the way.
Elder sis: Come on! It's no big deal after all you are at home.
There I was really bored and my intuition was telling me, "Why not?! After all it's just for the fun of it and you can check out the female version of you. So what the hell, let's goof around ." My sisters really got all happy when I gave the green light and it took them one hour to finish up! Jeez, no wonder women take long to dress up. Up went the eyeliner, lipstick, eyeshadow and blusher. They kept laughing non-stop and my male cousin was rolling on the floor clutching his tummy. When I had the chance to look at myself in the mirror, it was gross but funny! I had not shaved for a week and that made it worse! I took some shots and I'm gonna put some in this post. I've one thing to say to the holly divine, "Thank you for making me a male." Haha.
Anyone interested in dating Miss Vinod. Feel free to contact her. HAHA!
Introducing Miss Vinod..
Awww..Check out those lovely eyes and kissable lips..
Who wanna be kissed? I am waiting for you darlings. Damn! Even I am grossed out. Haha.
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Seduction Style
I have been thinking about what to come out with my next blog. Dissecting really deeply actually. I should be coming out soon with my next post but anyway check this out. They claim I am a charmer. Haha. It seems people only claim I am more of a charismatic person but charmer..Hmm..Am I?
Your Seduction Style: The Charmer |
 You're a master at intimate conversation and verbal enticement. You seduce with words, by getting people to open up to you. By establishing this deep connection quickly, people feel under your power. And then you've got them exactly where you want them! |
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Have You Ever..
1) wondered how the word 'Hello' is formed?
It's like hi from hell which precisely, is very negative. Just imagine when someone calls you and you answer, "Hi from hell..." Why isn't it call 'Heaveno?" Positive isn't it? "Hi from heaven.."
2) wondered why 'last piece' is hardly eaten/taken?
Ever seen that kind of incidents before. I'm sure you do because I have seen it so many times. If you haven't, next time when you see a couple or group ordering for example fries or any finger food watch them eat. I mean don't scrutinize because that would be plain rude but notice indirectly that whenever when the food is about to finish and there's the last piece left, 95% will not finish it up. The last piece will be left stranded there. I have no idea why. Had been working at my place and most of the time I see people leaving the last piece. Maybe it's a sign of respect and I am still figuring it out why.
3) wondered how it'll look like when humans start sticking out their tongues to show sign of health?
It is said, dogs, men's best friend, stick out their tongue all the time even when they are not thirsty because according to vets, they do that because to show a sign of health. Now just imagine what happens when the great divine god made us this way. Sticking our tongues out to show sign of health when walking around. Imagine every human start doing that? That will be the day. Haha.
4) wondered why women tend to open their mouth when applying mascara?
It is true. I've seen women doing that all the time. Seen my sisters and female friends. It's like a natural thing to do. Inevitable is the word. According to my female friend Agnes, she claims you need to do that to align. Like aligning the gun. Only this time, the mouth is the controller. It's pretty funny when she said that but she seem all serious. Don't believe me? Next time, guys notice when a woman put on mascara and you'll slowly see the opening of the wide hole. And I meant it in a rather clean and innocent way.
It's like hi from hell which precisely, is very negative. Just imagine when someone calls you and you answer, "Hi from hell..." Why isn't it call 'Heaveno?" Positive isn't it? "Hi from heaven.."
2) wondered why 'last piece' is hardly eaten/taken?
Ever seen that kind of incidents before. I'm sure you do because I have seen it so many times. If you haven't, next time when you see a couple or group ordering for example fries or any finger food watch them eat. I mean don't scrutinize because that would be plain rude but notice indirectly that whenever when the food is about to finish and there's the last piece left, 95% will not finish it up. The last piece will be left stranded there. I have no idea why. Had been working at my place and most of the time I see people leaving the last piece. Maybe it's a sign of respect and I am still figuring it out why.
3) wondered how it'll look like when humans start sticking out their tongues to show sign of health?
It is said, dogs, men's best friend, stick out their tongue all the time even when they are not thirsty because according to vets, they do that because to show a sign of health. Now just imagine what happens when the great divine god made us this way. Sticking our tongues out to show sign of health when walking around. Imagine every human start doing that? That will be the day. Haha.
4) wondered why women tend to open their mouth when applying mascara?
It is true. I've seen women doing that all the time. Seen my sisters and female friends. It's like a natural thing to do. Inevitable is the word. According to my female friend Agnes, she claims you need to do that to align. Like aligning the gun. Only this time, the mouth is the controller. It's pretty funny when she said that but she seem all serious. Don't believe me? Next time, guys notice when a woman put on mascara and you'll slowly see the opening of the wide hole. And I meant it in a rather clean and innocent way.
Friday, February 29, 2008
W24C - Part II
The Ladies
Xuehan
My Chinese friend here is getting on well here in RP. I can she tries alot during presentations though it is not easy for her. She speaks English so much better than most friends from China and yes, she has the best natural hair in class. I reckon she takes care of it because it looks really fresh. Just because I find her hair refreshing Albin came up with the stupid rumour when he actually comments about her..ahem..ok..guy stuff..but sometimes he'll go," She shouldn't wear pants." I feel she feel more comfortable with me than him because he creeps her out at times. Haha. Anyway, Xuehan is a quite and shy person in class but she can be loud.
Vanessa
She is one of the two ladies whom I don't like working in class. She is like a car who likes to go in one direction but never wanna try other directions. What I mean is, she is the old fashioned student. She doesn't like doing skids or video for even modules like Culture when we had the chance. She is definitely the kind who doesn't like to take risk. When working with her, I realize she is not willing to take in ideas when she feel is inappropriate. There was once she rejected Emily's and my idea but I went on and say the idea during my part of presentation and the faci claim it was good. What I am saying is, it's good to be doing the logical stuff but once in awhile she should take risk and do something illogical. She is a very helpful person, that I can vouch for but I don't really know much about her but when given a chance I prefer not working with her.
Charlene
A very whimsical woman and she's a true friend. A very direct person. She is the kind who don't trust someone easily but once she gets your trust then she'll start pouring to you all her stuff and crap. She calls herself 'boobie' milk for whatever reason but charlene's a all fun chick. She's into all the Jap stuff like Samuel and Zhen Jie and she has a thing for 'pretty' boys. The kind of dudes who spoil the image of real men. Haha. I tease her about that at times. Charlene is actually a smart chick but she waste it. She comes late for class and that cost her for better grades and sometimes she misses her UTs. Why do smart people waste their talent and become lazy? Jeez..
Dewi
Frankly, I ain't really sure what to write about her because I don't really mix with her much as she hardly comes to class at times. She was discriminated for her size for a period of time in the first semester especially by some shallow people and in away, I felt bad for her. These people who had their fair share of poking fun of her in uncouth ways used mandarin to communicate with each other to prevent her from getting their criticisms. Some friends who joked about her are not actually mean but they get influenced, in away like following the crowd. It disappointed me for a moment because these peers can actually use their brains to think. The thing is, if you wanna poke fun, use a language which is ideal to both the parties. Discrimination is not an easy thing to be handled especially if the whole cohort is against you. Sometimes I wonder if she knows she is being looked down which resulted in her not coming to class often. She has her cons as well. From what I heard, she has this 'pushing' factor where she pushes her points in the power point slides and make sure it is there even at the expense of a team disagreeing with it. I didn't really team with her so I ain't sure but some friends tell me she does that and they can't oppose it. They should have because it's a team's effort and not a single person. Many times she has left the class during the second break claiming she has to go and take care of her 'father-in-law' in the hospital. It's up to her if she wanna do that because I have no say in matters relating to her family but she should realize there's a team with her and leaving half-way shows irresponsibility and grades being deteriorated. From what I know, she is gonna be married when she's 20.
Lee Xuan
A very hardworking student. Yes she is, if you ever worked with her. I have worked with her for culture and twice I was in the same team as her and I never regretted because she is very hardworking. I have no idea why the facilitator gives her a low grade for the first few assignments. Maybe it's because they way she presents is not so convincing. She knows her stuff but she gets intimidated when presenting. She's a very soft person at heart and she has one of the best smiles in class and yes, she has a beautiful face. The problem with her, like dewi, she has this bad habit of leaving class half way as well. I don't understand why she does that but she does that frequently especially in second half of semester two and yes, it's always annoying when anyone does that.
Mabel
She can be a good friend but her attitude undermines her personality. She's sensitive. She can spray words jokingly but she can't accept when someone hit it back against her. She has this kind of vendetta with Samuel and I don't understand why. I reckon it started once she read his post about his 'dark' side. She can't accept when someone praises him and when I call him smart she tries to influence me in siding with her but I'll still say it, he's smart. She happen to always question Sam when he happen to be in another group about his power point slide. It's alright to question, I ain't against it but half of the time the time it's outrageously not related which makes the faci give the awe-struck look which if i can translate the look it will go, "What's your rational in asking the question?". She claims others are copying from friend's slide when she herself is doing plagiarism. I have noted it a couple of times. She's actually a pretty smart girl and can be a good team mate. I hope she uses her smartness for correct use and change her personality for the better. She has to understand the more she has this attitude, the more she is chasing away friends.
Cloudie
This is the second person whom I do not like teaming with. Most of the time she'll be in MSN chatting with someone else even when the discussion started. She hardly does any work and only towards the end she'll do something and it's actually copied slides from another person's power point and then she will elaborate on it which most of the time impresses the faci unfortunately which results in her getting an undeserved A. I ain't saying all the time but most of the time. There was once Ridwan gave me a C and she a C. It's funny to see she getting rather annoyed with the grade and this is the ironical part. She actually wanted to write in claiming she doesn't deserve the grade and to think about it, it's pretty laughable. She is another smart lady but a very lazy one. She says much gross stuff without thinking and sometimes some people told me she has to wash her mouth. She is actually a confused girl with LSE. A loud good friend with a soft heart.
Debra
She is so far the cutest girl in RP whom I have met. Maybe it's because of her small frame size or because of the way she speaks. I keep teasing her about her height claiming, "Hey, tall girl is here." Debra is the kind of girl who cannot accept defeat easily. She takes it rather personally and takes sometime to recover. Maybe it's because she was taken care of and has been experiencing good things all the time so a little barrier becomes a big impact for her. She is a smart girl but can be lazy. Sometimes she don't get involved in group discussions and the last few weeks, she didn't even put in much effort in the assignments of the modules and I am seriously wondering why. I had a feeling she was not taken by Sam as well by the way she behaves towards him and I was a little disappointed but my perception changed once I see her tagging in my blog to Sam, being nice and advising him. I guess people change.
Eunice
A very hardworking student. Given a chance, I would have her as my team mate anytime because she works really hard. Yes, I do tease her much because she don't take anything personally, rather she has a laugh or she tries to counter back but in vain. Sometimes I feel she don't get the grades she deserve as she puts in so much work. Maybe the faci feels she has to put in more in her presentation skills. Like most girls, she has very LSE. She don't take compliments well rather she brushed it off claiming she is not that. I have always told her to work on her confidence level. She's a very good friend and someone I can trust.
Jasmin
Miss photogenic. She's my favourite woman in class. Not only me but ask many people in class around, especially the dudes because she's super fun. We keep teasing and disturbing her but she takes it rather well and she's also very cheeky. She's actually naive in away because I always manage to outsmart her in some stuff and then she'll go "I don't friend you". As a team mate, she's alright but yes, she can be lazy. The Jasmin we see is not what she is. There is more to her and she is one of the person whom I can really trust and have a chat. One thing which puzzles me is, I don't understand why she always rejects our group outings. Maybe she is closer to her ex class but still alittle odd. She has this habit of smiling sideways when she takes a photo. Haha. Jasmin is actually a very soft person. She may look hard outside but actually all jelly inside. I can not forget the last day of school where I see a drop of tear from her eyes before she left. Must be pretty emotional for her though of course she won't accept. It's always a pleasure to know Jasmin and come out with us soon, your highness.
Monday, February 11, 2008
W24C
School has been over and it's getting damn boring though it has been only a week. Mum is out of town and it's even more boring without her because if she happens to be around, at least there will be something to talk and crap about. I am actually looking for a job. I didn't quit my bar job but I need another job to get a better pay for two months before the school re-opens. Frankly, looking for a job ain't easy. I remembered, I only got my bar job after 20 failed applications from different areas. Can you imagine that? And it's only a part-time job. I see what I can do for a new job and if I fail to find any by this week, I'll probably work in the bar, basically every single day if possible.
Anyway, I am blogging today about my ex class W24C in semester two. Blogging about every single soul. I do miss them but the feeling is not like the way I missed my W25C class in semester 1. I feel more at home in W25C. In this class, people will be speaking more in mandarin and sometimes I feel alienated and my mind will go, "What the hell?!" I've did my best to bring the class together but some people just won't wanna get adapted to the new environment and new friends. Some people will go, "This class cannot make it" when they themselves are not doing a single shit in helping the class to make it. To tell you the truth, there was politics in this class. Some people don't like someone but they'll go all nice when they talk to you but bitch at the back. To be fair, I feel the guys in this class are cool. I ain't being prejudice to the ladies but even 2 close lady friends were telling me they prefer the guys in the class to the girls. One even said, "You guys joke and are direct but the girls be nice to you now but behind you they say bad things." The ironic part about this class is, people even back-stab about another person to the faci. Awesome eh? Wow, I didn't know classmates did that to one another. I didn't really 'feel' this class from the start. In fact I nearly gave up before the first vacations when a great friend from the class reprimanded me claiming I shouldn't judge the class so fast. There I laid in bed thinking, "Maybe I shouldn't have judge the class fast and give them time. They are new anyway." But then I realized I've cheated my own intuition. It's only towards the end, where I got close with some people.
I am really gonna be honest and frank about every single soul in this class because I ain't the type who likes to 'bootlick' or 'kiss-ass' and I ain't the type who is bias to anyone. Not my style. I was asking a friend should I be frank about this blog and he was like, "Dude, maybe some people needs to realize the truth. The thing is, the truth hurts but there's no point beating around the bush." I maybe quiet sometimes but that doesn't mean I ain't scrutinizing people's attitude. It's been a habit for me since when I was young. I read people when I am noisy or when I am quiet but I don't judge someone fast. I don't come down to a conclusion that easy. Maybe people will go, "Who the hell are you to read and judge people when you have shit at your own back as well?" Well, I ain't saying I am perfect. In fact, no human is perfect but I am willing to change my cons. So here is my post about my classmates. People who wanna take it optimistically will sit down and dissect and probably change for the better and people who wanna take it pessimistically, I've gotta nothing more to say and IDGARA.
The Guys
Albin
The most direct guy I ever knew in this class. If he feels like he has something to say, he just shoots. He don't give second thoughts about it. Most of the time it's all crap and he basically don't mean what he says. In away being direct is good but definitely not all the time. Sometimes when he says somethings without realizing the consequences, the outcome from opposite party may not be so appeasing. For example, when he called the science faci a 'Bangla' right to her face, I can see she wasn't pleased but then she realized Albin was just crapping. At first glance, I thought he was an uncouth gangster but he's actually a nice guy in personality. He's also freaking smart in Science but he is lazy. I gotta say he helped me a heap in Science mostly and for some reason when I group with him, he will definitely help out.
Jeksen
My Indonesian friend is very smart. Way too smart for his knowing. He had a GPA of 3.9 in first semester, so you know what kind of person you are dealing with. His forte is, he catches things very fast and he's more effective in Science and Math. I realize that in the later part where the class knew each other 'better', he actually craps much as well. I personally feel he doesn't have a social life. I can understand the fact he is in another country and it ain't easy for him but he prefers to keep to himself in the school's hostel. Jeksen is a nice dude but he's selfish. He don't really share his findings or thoughts to anyone in class even when someone ask him, he says it briefly to them and that is one of the reasons I don't really like asking his help in modules if I have any qualms. It's like he prefers personal glory to himself. In finding success oneself is sweet but sharing your findings with fellow friends is sweeter.
Nigilan
He went through shit in life. Seriously, living in war bound country and coming to Singapore to study and escape from war and worrying about your family back home ain't easy. Sometimes I see him reading all the Sri Lanka websites and he'll tell me there's war again and when I see his face with misery, I feel bad for the dude. He's a smart dude and like Jeksen, he's more effective in Math and Science and I can safely say he is better than Jeksen in Visual Basics. He helped me much in both Math and Science and he would come up personally to my area and teach me Visual Basics but he's lazy as well. Mostly in language modules. Sometimes when I ask him to say a certain slide he declines it because he is afraid to explain from the slide thinking whatever he says will be wrong. I told him not to worry but he prefers to refrain from it.
Herman
I can say this dude is smart but he's more hardworking. He is the type of personality who never gives up in something until he really understands it and he's very helpful person. If you ask him something you don't understand, he will never say no. The thing about him is, he tends to over analyze something at times. So much so he tends to confuse himself and people around him and sometimes I find it so funny. Nevertheless, I will never complain working with him because he tries so much in presentation and help out a lot. It'll always be a pleasure teaming up with him and knowing him as a person.
Samuel
The tallest dude I ever knew besides my cousin. I didn't know much about him until I read his blog about his 'dark' side. It was really direct and he actually didn't hide that he was that kind of person before. It's good to write about his cons but I feel he shouldn't have be over descriptive in certain things because it can creep someone out especially some girls in my class who acted all creep out until it disgust me and that undermines his personality from the start for a while. I wasn't creep out because he was that before and what makes you think he'll be in future? Give that dude a break. He's trying to change and instead of helping him, you refrain from him? Wow, some deal eh? He work up from ITE and in away it makes me wonder why he was even there because I'll say it again. He's Smart. He's hardworking. Maybe he was like me, where he screwed up before and wanna make it right now. You can see the way he does his power point slides and research that he makes an effort and he also helps friends much. His con is he tends to beat around the bush when he is trying to comprehend something and not go directly to the point. Overall, he's a good friend and I never had a problem teaming up with him because he's a good team mate.
Yong shun
He's very good in his UTs and he's actually smart. He's like a submarine, silent but deadly. The silent killer. He does his killer punch in his UTs but it keeps me wondering why he presents in an odd way during presentation when he actually knows his stuff. He helps out but sometimes he gets lazy. A very cheeky fellow and he's known to be a looker among some girls in class. He doesn't really say much about his feelings and keeps it to himself. I only got to know some things about him when I happen to walk to the interchange with him. An avid pool player.
Yuhan
A great and true friend. He may seem like a crude guy who shouts a freaking much of vulgarities in class but he actually soft at heart. He cares for people he knows. Can be seen from the way he treats his gf when she was in the hospital and from the way he misses friends once the school closes. It's funny he only got close to some people towards the end. I reckon he needed time to heat up. I always tell him not to give a rat's ass what people claim about him when he gets A for a lesson because these people feel he is a slacker and he doesn't deserve it. Some people will go, "Even Yuhan gets A" and so? Why? Can't he deserve an A? To tell you the truth, when he works in my team, he will help out. He does researches as well and yes, he can get lazy but he is the type who will work for you if you say it nicely or motivate him. Most of the time, friends don't care about him because they feel he plays games and doesn't care during group discussions. He has to work on his presentation skills and I can see he feels he can't explain to the class when he actually can. Have faith in yourself bro. Dude, year 2 is pp. Work on it.
Zhen Jie
A happy go lucky dude. He has this red streaks of hair with him and when I first saw him, I had the impression this guy was into Jap stuff and yes, I was right. He's also into RnB and Hip Hop music and he shares some of his songs with me. He is actually a very helpful team mate. In fact he works hard and help out with most of the topics for each module. He is handy with computer stuff as he had studied the course in ITE Simei. The thing about this dude is, his laughter always makes people crack up as well. There's something about his laughter. I don't know why but it's just plain funny and frankly I only started talking more to him because he watches BPL and he was an Arsenal fan so there was something similar where we can talk about. Most of the time when the lesson finishes, he is the first one to leave the class and I found that odd because why would someone leave so early? I realize later that he had to go visit his gf who happens to finish classes faster most of the time than him. There was once he was saying to me, "Aiyah, better go early if not later small thing, she makes into a big thing, then quarrel and I don't like quarrelling. You know how girls are." Haha.
Shamsul
He is the smallest dude in class but he is rather cheeky with his words. He is good in Visual Basics and his ability to think differently is a real asset. Like for example I didn't know the gender and sex is actually a different thing until he blurt it out to the faci. He is actually a smart dude. It can been seen when he ask sophisticated questions. He helps out in team work but he can be lazy. I don't really know much about him. The only thing I know is the class always tease him with this girl who wears a Toodong and I can sometimes see he gets annoyed from his facial expression.
Taufiq
My brother Taufiq here is a big and cheeky dude. For some reason he likes to tease Jasmin alot(who doesn't?) and claim he likes flirting with Jasmin. Haha. He has this odd laughter in him where it sounds Scooby Doo laughing. He is a good team mate because he really help. The only thing about him I notice is his nerves. He is loud when presenting but kind of loose confidence in himself when the faci or some of the classmates pop out a question. Then he'll kind of get nervous. Dude, don't give a damn. I mean we are all to learn man. If you can answer do it, if you can't, smile it off. I gotta say Taufiq is a big romantic. When I read his blog sometimes it is too romantic that it makes me wanna puke. Haha! I guess that's how couples behave when they are in love. He's all about tease and when I tease him or crack a joke, he accepts it well, especially the 'gay' thing we do together. I told his gf not to be selfish and share him. Haha. Both he and his gf make a great couple. I mean they complement each other rather well and so far, they are the best couple I've seen in RP. Rock on brother and work hard for your year two. Nigga G dude.
Anyway, I am blogging today about my ex class W24C in semester two. Blogging about every single soul. I do miss them but the feeling is not like the way I missed my W25C class in semester 1. I feel more at home in W25C. In this class, people will be speaking more in mandarin and sometimes I feel alienated and my mind will go, "What the hell?!" I've did my best to bring the class together but some people just won't wanna get adapted to the new environment and new friends. Some people will go, "This class cannot make it" when they themselves are not doing a single shit in helping the class to make it. To tell you the truth, there was politics in this class. Some people don't like someone but they'll go all nice when they talk to you but bitch at the back. To be fair, I feel the guys in this class are cool. I ain't being prejudice to the ladies but even 2 close lady friends were telling me they prefer the guys in the class to the girls. One even said, "You guys joke and are direct but the girls be nice to you now but behind you they say bad things." The ironic part about this class is, people even back-stab about another person to the faci. Awesome eh? Wow, I didn't know classmates did that to one another. I didn't really 'feel' this class from the start. In fact I nearly gave up before the first vacations when a great friend from the class reprimanded me claiming I shouldn't judge the class so fast. There I laid in bed thinking, "Maybe I shouldn't have judge the class fast and give them time. They are new anyway." But then I realized I've cheated my own intuition. It's only towards the end, where I got close with some people.
I am really gonna be honest and frank about every single soul in this class because I ain't the type who likes to 'bootlick' or 'kiss-ass' and I ain't the type who is bias to anyone. Not my style. I was asking a friend should I be frank about this blog and he was like, "Dude, maybe some people needs to realize the truth. The thing is, the truth hurts but there's no point beating around the bush." I maybe quiet sometimes but that doesn't mean I ain't scrutinizing people's attitude. It's been a habit for me since when I was young. I read people when I am noisy or when I am quiet but I don't judge someone fast. I don't come down to a conclusion that easy. Maybe people will go, "Who the hell are you to read and judge people when you have shit at your own back as well?" Well, I ain't saying I am perfect. In fact, no human is perfect but I am willing to change my cons. So here is my post about my classmates. People who wanna take it optimistically will sit down and dissect and probably change for the better and people who wanna take it pessimistically, I've gotta nothing more to say and IDGARA.
The Guys
Albin
The most direct guy I ever knew in this class. If he feels like he has something to say, he just shoots. He don't give second thoughts about it. Most of the time it's all crap and he basically don't mean what he says. In away being direct is good but definitely not all the time. Sometimes when he says somethings without realizing the consequences, the outcome from opposite party may not be so appeasing. For example, when he called the science faci a 'Bangla' right to her face, I can see she wasn't pleased but then she realized Albin was just crapping. At first glance, I thought he was an uncouth gangster but he's actually a nice guy in personality. He's also freaking smart in Science but he is lazy. I gotta say he helped me a heap in Science mostly and for some reason when I group with him, he will definitely help out.
Jeksen
My Indonesian friend is very smart. Way too smart for his knowing. He had a GPA of 3.9 in first semester, so you know what kind of person you are dealing with. His forte is, he catches things very fast and he's more effective in Science and Math. I realize that in the later part where the class knew each other 'better', he actually craps much as well. I personally feel he doesn't have a social life. I can understand the fact he is in another country and it ain't easy for him but he prefers to keep to himself in the school's hostel. Jeksen is a nice dude but he's selfish. He don't really share his findings or thoughts to anyone in class even when someone ask him, he says it briefly to them and that is one of the reasons I don't really like asking his help in modules if I have any qualms. It's like he prefers personal glory to himself. In finding success oneself is sweet but sharing your findings with fellow friends is sweeter.
Nigilan
He went through shit in life. Seriously, living in war bound country and coming to Singapore to study and escape from war and worrying about your family back home ain't easy. Sometimes I see him reading all the Sri Lanka websites and he'll tell me there's war again and when I see his face with misery, I feel bad for the dude. He's a smart dude and like Jeksen, he's more effective in Math and Science and I can safely say he is better than Jeksen in Visual Basics. He helped me much in both Math and Science and he would come up personally to my area and teach me Visual Basics but he's lazy as well. Mostly in language modules. Sometimes when I ask him to say a certain slide he declines it because he is afraid to explain from the slide thinking whatever he says will be wrong. I told him not to worry but he prefers to refrain from it.
Herman
I can say this dude is smart but he's more hardworking. He is the type of personality who never gives up in something until he really understands it and he's very helpful person. If you ask him something you don't understand, he will never say no. The thing about him is, he tends to over analyze something at times. So much so he tends to confuse himself and people around him and sometimes I find it so funny. Nevertheless, I will never complain working with him because he tries so much in presentation and help out a lot. It'll always be a pleasure teaming up with him and knowing him as a person.
Samuel
The tallest dude I ever knew besides my cousin. I didn't know much about him until I read his blog about his 'dark' side. It was really direct and he actually didn't hide that he was that kind of person before. It's good to write about his cons but I feel he shouldn't have be over descriptive in certain things because it can creep someone out especially some girls in my class who acted all creep out until it disgust me and that undermines his personality from the start for a while. I wasn't creep out because he was that before and what makes you think he'll be in future? Give that dude a break. He's trying to change and instead of helping him, you refrain from him? Wow, some deal eh? He work up from ITE and in away it makes me wonder why he was even there because I'll say it again. He's Smart. He's hardworking. Maybe he was like me, where he screwed up before and wanna make it right now. You can see the way he does his power point slides and research that he makes an effort and he also helps friends much. His con is he tends to beat around the bush when he is trying to comprehend something and not go directly to the point. Overall, he's a good friend and I never had a problem teaming up with him because he's a good team mate.
Yong shun
He's very good in his UTs and he's actually smart. He's like a submarine, silent but deadly. The silent killer. He does his killer punch in his UTs but it keeps me wondering why he presents in an odd way during presentation when he actually knows his stuff. He helps out but sometimes he gets lazy. A very cheeky fellow and he's known to be a looker among some girls in class. He doesn't really say much about his feelings and keeps it to himself. I only got to know some things about him when I happen to walk to the interchange with him. An avid pool player.
Yuhan
A great and true friend. He may seem like a crude guy who shouts a freaking much of vulgarities in class but he actually soft at heart. He cares for people he knows. Can be seen from the way he treats his gf when she was in the hospital and from the way he misses friends once the school closes. It's funny he only got close to some people towards the end. I reckon he needed time to heat up. I always tell him not to give a rat's ass what people claim about him when he gets A for a lesson because these people feel he is a slacker and he doesn't deserve it. Some people will go, "Even Yuhan gets A" and so? Why? Can't he deserve an A? To tell you the truth, when he works in my team, he will help out. He does researches as well and yes, he can get lazy but he is the type who will work for you if you say it nicely or motivate him. Most of the time, friends don't care about him because they feel he plays games and doesn't care during group discussions. He has to work on his presentation skills and I can see he feels he can't explain to the class when he actually can. Have faith in yourself bro. Dude, year 2 is pp. Work on it.
Zhen Jie
A happy go lucky dude. He has this red streaks of hair with him and when I first saw him, I had the impression this guy was into Jap stuff and yes, I was right. He's also into RnB and Hip Hop music and he shares some of his songs with me. He is actually a very helpful team mate. In fact he works hard and help out with most of the topics for each module. He is handy with computer stuff as he had studied the course in ITE Simei. The thing about this dude is, his laughter always makes people crack up as well. There's something about his laughter. I don't know why but it's just plain funny and frankly I only started talking more to him because he watches BPL and he was an Arsenal fan so there was something similar where we can talk about. Most of the time when the lesson finishes, he is the first one to leave the class and I found that odd because why would someone leave so early? I realize later that he had to go visit his gf who happens to finish classes faster most of the time than him. There was once he was saying to me, "Aiyah, better go early if not later small thing, she makes into a big thing, then quarrel and I don't like quarrelling. You know how girls are." Haha.
Shamsul
He is the smallest dude in class but he is rather cheeky with his words. He is good in Visual Basics and his ability to think differently is a real asset. Like for example I didn't know the gender and sex is actually a different thing until he blurt it out to the faci. He is actually a smart dude. It can been seen when he ask sophisticated questions. He helps out in team work but he can be lazy. I don't really know much about him. The only thing I know is the class always tease him with this girl who wears a Toodong and I can sometimes see he gets annoyed from his facial expression.
Taufiq
My brother Taufiq here is a big and cheeky dude. For some reason he likes to tease Jasmin alot(who doesn't?) and claim he likes flirting with Jasmin. Haha. He has this odd laughter in him where it sounds Scooby Doo laughing. He is a good team mate because he really help. The only thing about him I notice is his nerves. He is loud when presenting but kind of loose confidence in himself when the faci or some of the classmates pop out a question. Then he'll kind of get nervous. Dude, don't give a damn. I mean we are all to learn man. If you can answer do it, if you can't, smile it off. I gotta say Taufiq is a big romantic. When I read his blog sometimes it is too romantic that it makes me wanna puke. Haha! I guess that's how couples behave when they are in love. He's all about tease and when I tease him or crack a joke, he accepts it well, especially the 'gay' thing we do together. I told his gf not to be selfish and share him. Haha. Both he and his gf make a great couple. I mean they complement each other rather well and so far, they are the best couple I've seen in RP. Rock on brother and work hard for your year two. Nigga G dude.
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Things we can learn from a dog..
I saw this interesting article at my work on Sunday. Very meaningful and as humans we can learn much from the domestic animal and our loyal friend...
1) When love ones come home, always run home to greet them
2) Run, romp and play daily. Be loyal.
3) Never pretend to be something you are not.
4) If what you want lies buried, dig until you find them.
5) When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
6) Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
7) Avoid biting when a simple growl would do.
8) No matter how much you are criticized, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout.
9) Run right back and make friends.
1) When love ones come home, always run home to greet them
2) Run, romp and play daily. Be loyal.
3) Never pretend to be something you are not.
4) If what you want lies buried, dig until you find them.
5) When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
6) Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
7) Avoid biting when a simple growl would do.
8) No matter how much you are criticized, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout.
9) Run right back and make friends.
Monday, December 31, 2007
2008
Howdy friends! It's been sometime since I blogged eh? Ok, yea yea, it has been really a long time since I last posted my blog. Been real busy and yea gotta admit a little lazy. What can you expect? It's the vacations and I have been working as well, at my bar during the Christmas period wearing the geeky 'Santa' hat where I received lots of smiling feedbacks from customers. Christmas was actually monotonous for me this year where I actually fall ill. Yea again! Damn my immune system was really dead in 2007 and I gotta admit the truth. I don't recall how many pills I have consumed. So much so I got pretty afraid I became a 'drug' addict. To tell you the truth, I despised taking those damn pills. I hardly get sick and 2007 was the worst . My body just malfunctioned.
Anyway 2007 is gone! And now is Jan 1st 2008 and HAPPY NEW YEAR people. This is my year. Yea you got that right. It's the year of the rat in the Chinese calender. 2007 was quite bad actually eh? Had lots of natural disasters, basically lots of earth quakes and not to mention the death rate which tolled up to a freaking amount. Let's hope 2008 will be good and people listen up. You make the 2008!:)
One of my resolutions for 2008 is meeting new people and making more friends. No, not just the females.. Haha.. But also the males. Making a friend is not easy for some people I must admit and I use to be one of the coy people where I hardly make the first move to speak with an unknown stranger. They say "Do not Speak with strangers." The thing is if I do not speak with an unknown person, how do I make a friend? Odd eh? Now let me change the phrase. "Speak with an unknown person and make a friend every single day!" Making new friends is like buying new clothes. The only difference is new clothes would bore a person after wearing it for countless times but friends never. Friends are like special siblings. They are the one we pour our shit out. Not even our family knows all our stuff but friends do. So have a goal everyday. "When I get out of the house, I need to speak with an unknown person." It don't have to be with a 'real' unknown person. It can be the hawker centre lady, the petrol kiosk man who fills up your tank, the newspaper lady or anyone where you can strike a simple conversation like "Hey how's it going?" or "Hi, how's your day?" Tell you the truth. It is said in a study that people appreciate another person who actually cares about asking how their day was or striking any small talk. We are humans. We need to constantly communicate and show love and concern.
Speaking about love and concern, try to show them everyday. When your mum cooks something for you, even if it's a simple dish, tell her it's awesome and you love it. Even when she's at her negative mood, she'll morph to a positive mood. When your dad comes back from work, ask him how's his day was. Even it was a bad day, he'll feel good you ask him and he'll definitely tell you because you care about asking him. It's a simple chore but we humans mostly avoid doing it. Don't do it just to your family. Do it to everyone around you. Maybe some people will go, "Dude, you gotta be practical man." Yea, I know it may not sound practical but I wanna try. I wanna make people happy. I ain't saying I would not get a bad day but bad days never come everyday. If someone is happy, it makes me happy and if it is because of me the opposite party starts smiling and laughing, I'll be even more glad. Though one claims with money happiness can be bought, but I never support that phrase. Materialistic happiness is never lasting one. It's more like a 'cheap' thrill. I wanna real happiness where I can feel the vibe through my body hopefully every single day. That is what real happiness is about. So people make your 2008 and useful and and worthy one. Cheers!
Anyway 2007 is gone! And now is Jan 1st 2008 and HAPPY NEW YEAR people. This is my year. Yea you got that right. It's the year of the rat in the Chinese calender. 2007 was quite bad actually eh? Had lots of natural disasters, basically lots of earth quakes and not to mention the death rate which tolled up to a freaking amount. Let's hope 2008 will be good and people listen up. You make the 2008!:)
One of my resolutions for 2008 is meeting new people and making more friends. No, not just the females.. Haha.. But also the males. Making a friend is not easy for some people I must admit and I use to be one of the coy people where I hardly make the first move to speak with an unknown stranger. They say "Do not Speak with strangers." The thing is if I do not speak with an unknown person, how do I make a friend? Odd eh? Now let me change the phrase. "Speak with an unknown person and make a friend every single day!" Making new friends is like buying new clothes. The only difference is new clothes would bore a person after wearing it for countless times but friends never. Friends are like special siblings. They are the one we pour our shit out. Not even our family knows all our stuff but friends do. So have a goal everyday. "When I get out of the house, I need to speak with an unknown person." It don't have to be with a 'real' unknown person. It can be the hawker centre lady, the petrol kiosk man who fills up your tank, the newspaper lady or anyone where you can strike a simple conversation like "Hey how's it going?" or "Hi, how's your day?" Tell you the truth. It is said in a study that people appreciate another person who actually cares about asking how their day was or striking any small talk. We are humans. We need to constantly communicate and show love and concern.
Speaking about love and concern, try to show them everyday. When your mum cooks something for you, even if it's a simple dish, tell her it's awesome and you love it. Even when she's at her negative mood, she'll morph to a positive mood. When your dad comes back from work, ask him how's his day was. Even it was a bad day, he'll feel good you ask him and he'll definitely tell you because you care about asking him. It's a simple chore but we humans mostly avoid doing it. Don't do it just to your family. Do it to everyone around you. Maybe some people will go, "Dude, you gotta be practical man." Yea, I know it may not sound practical but I wanna try. I wanna make people happy. I ain't saying I would not get a bad day but bad days never come everyday. If someone is happy, it makes me happy and if it is because of me the opposite party starts smiling and laughing, I'll be even more glad. Though one claims with money happiness can be bought, but I never support that phrase. Materialistic happiness is never lasting one. It's more like a 'cheap' thrill. I wanna real happiness where I can feel the vibe through my body hopefully every single day. That is what real happiness is about. So people make your 2008 and useful and and worthy one. Cheers!
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Deepavali Doggedness
Heya beautiful people. First of all before I start, Happy Deepavali to all people in Singapore. Wait a min. Let's say that to the whole world. Happy Deepavali World. Anyway, wondering why I am blogging on this day? Well, I was thinking, since this is a special day for celebration, it would also be the best day to come out with my resolutions. Yea I know New year's around the corner but I feel there's no point in procrastinating about what I wanna achieve. I reckon it's always good to start the good stuff earlier and there's no point holding back. I'm really worn out now but I feel I need to put these important stuff down so I'll know I won't be contradicting myself and there will always be a prick in my heart if I don't do it. Alright, enough talk and let's start the ball rolling with my resolutions.
1) Read the Newspaper daily
I have not been reading it for sometime and I feel guilty. It's one of the easy source of information around the world.
2) Brush the teeth twice, use floss and Listerine.
I know this may sound rather hillarious but hey wait! I do brush my teeth in the morning but sometimes due being too exhausted I sleep without realizing cleaning it at night.. :)
3) Buck up for the UTs
I have been doing alright in class but getting shitty UT grades so sometimes I wonder what's the point doing well in class assignment but suck at UT? GPA doesn't turn out well so I need to do better in UTs as well.
4) Be prepared for UTs and not do last min revision
I have been doing this most of the time and I reckon it plays apart for my crappy grades. So no more.
5) Finish up reading all my Health Magazines by the month
I use to be very engrossed in stuff like this( my fav mag) but nowadays I have been getting pretty lazy and I don't wanna continue with that.
6) Get rid of my excess fats on my belly
I use to be pretty overweight before so getting it down brought me another annoying present, excess fats. It is very tough to get rid of them I admit but Yes! It's possible. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.
7) Bring my waist size of 34 to 32
I think 32 and 33 are the best size for guys. Of course I need to work on my lower body especially the glutes. Not tofu butt but firm tush. Something to hold on to. Haha.
8) Exercise on weekdays
Weekends I wanna rest plus I got work to occupy myself. Monday and Wednesday would be Cardio Workouts and Tue and Thurs would be heading down to the gym. Yes, I'm officially gonna use the school gym. I was thinking about what my friend Andrew was saying and yes, why waste the school facilities? We are paying for it anyway. Oh yea, Friday would be either gym or Cardio. I wanna fit myself into the medium white t-shirt and blue jeans. It's my aim.
9) Prevent eating junk and greasy food as much as possible
It's not easy to prevent from these food. I'm am exactly a fan of junk food but greasy food isn't that easy to avoid but like I said as much as possible. Sometimes definitely I would wanna indulge in these food, I'm human after all. :) P:S: Avoiding choc chip muffin and fishball crackers is never easy.
10) Sleep by 2245 every single weekday
Humans need at least 7 hours of sleep and I happen to wake up by 6am everyday. So I need adequate amount of sleep to feel fresh for class and for the day.
Alright these are my 10 resolutions and I strongly wanna follow it. Maybe you guys feel I'm like leaving a routine lifestyle. I ain't. These are good for me anyway. You need to write down stuff like these so you'll know you need to follow or you'll feel damn guilty. I have been telling few people I will come up with a blog about my past and I feel I should. I don't think I need to hide about it. It ain't pleasant but the past, most of the time make you a stronger person though one should not dwell into it all the time. Not healthy. I am coming out with most probably in my next post so hang on to your pants people and once again Happy Deepavali to the world. Have you done your resolutions?
1) Read the Newspaper daily
I have not been reading it for sometime and I feel guilty. It's one of the easy source of information around the world.
2) Brush the teeth twice, use floss and Listerine.
I know this may sound rather hillarious but hey wait! I do brush my teeth in the morning but sometimes due being too exhausted I sleep without realizing cleaning it at night.. :)
3) Buck up for the UTs
I have been doing alright in class but getting shitty UT grades so sometimes I wonder what's the point doing well in class assignment but suck at UT? GPA doesn't turn out well so I need to do better in UTs as well.
4) Be prepared for UTs and not do last min revision
I have been doing this most of the time and I reckon it plays apart for my crappy grades. So no more.
5) Finish up reading all my Health Magazines by the month
I use to be very engrossed in stuff like this( my fav mag) but nowadays I have been getting pretty lazy and I don't wanna continue with that.
6) Get rid of my excess fats on my belly
I use to be pretty overweight before so getting it down brought me another annoying present, excess fats. It is very tough to get rid of them I admit but Yes! It's possible. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.
7) Bring my waist size of 34 to 32
I think 32 and 33 are the best size for guys. Of course I need to work on my lower body especially the glutes. Not tofu butt but firm tush. Something to hold on to. Haha.
8) Exercise on weekdays
Weekends I wanna rest plus I got work to occupy myself. Monday and Wednesday would be Cardio Workouts and Tue and Thurs would be heading down to the gym. Yes, I'm officially gonna use the school gym. I was thinking about what my friend Andrew was saying and yes, why waste the school facilities? We are paying for it anyway. Oh yea, Friday would be either gym or Cardio. I wanna fit myself into the medium white t-shirt and blue jeans. It's my aim.
9) Prevent eating junk and greasy food as much as possible
It's not easy to prevent from these food. I'm am exactly a fan of junk food but greasy food isn't that easy to avoid but like I said as much as possible. Sometimes definitely I would wanna indulge in these food, I'm human after all. :) P:S: Avoiding choc chip muffin and fishball crackers is never easy.
10) Sleep by 2245 every single weekday
Humans need at least 7 hours of sleep and I happen to wake up by 6am everyday. So I need adequate amount of sleep to feel fresh for class and for the day.
Alright these are my 10 resolutions and I strongly wanna follow it. Maybe you guys feel I'm like leaving a routine lifestyle. I ain't. These are good for me anyway. You need to write down stuff like these so you'll know you need to follow or you'll feel damn guilty. I have been telling few people I will come up with a blog about my past and I feel I should. I don't think I need to hide about it. It ain't pleasant but the past, most of the time make you a stronger person though one should not dwell into it all the time. Not healthy. I am coming out with most probably in my next post so hang on to your pants people and once again Happy Deepavali to the world. Have you done your resolutions?
Friday, November 2, 2007
Seoul Garden Part II
Yo people. Went out with W24C.. Alright let's not overstate it.. Only 4 people came..But nevertheless we had fun and it was kind of a new experience for my Sri Lankan pal, Nigilan. He learning how to use chopsticks now. Mine sucks as well but the thing is, I can hold it! Anyway we took some pics and we are suppose to hang out, the whole of W24C, next week on Friday. Tentatively it is ice-skating and yes, I miss ice-skating. It's helluva fun and the irony part is, you can perspire in a cold place. Cold sweat, I reckon. Anyway check out the pics and have a good one people. Peace out.
Gruesome, Threesome..
The guys in Seoul Garden..
Emily.."BLOWING" the chicken.. Haha..
"Cheena" Woman and "Tamil" Woman.. Both trying their best to act cute but in vain.. :)
Mabel.. Sigh.. Trying to act cute as well..
Master piece..
I specially like this pic of mine.. It was taken by Mabel without me realizing. Like I am in a 'deep' thought..
I forgot about taking pic with Eunice. (Sorry darling)..Haha.. I tried to take photo with Nigilan but the dude is coy. Will be taking with you soon dude.. And dude, don't be upset man. We are all here for you.. Smile Bro..
Gruesome, Threesome..
The guys in Seoul Garden..
Emily.."BLOWING" the chicken.. Haha..
"Cheena" Woman and "Tamil" Woman.. Both trying their best to act cute but in vain.. :)
Mabel.. Sigh.. Trying to act cute as well..
Master piece..
I specially like this pic of mine.. It was taken by Mabel without me realizing. Like I am in a 'deep' thought..I forgot about taking pic with Eunice. (Sorry darling)..Haha.. I tried to take photo with Nigilan but the dude is coy. Will be taking with you soon dude.. And dude, don't be upset man. We are all here for you.. Smile Bro..
Friday, October 26, 2007
Weigh
Hey amigos and amigas. Freaking long time eh? I mean my update? Actually it isn't that long compared to the last time where Dom was nagging me to update which theoretically speaking, I didn't write in a new post for nearly two months. Yea that long. But that was because I was really tied up. So much so my cousin was saying, "Dude, take a break, have a wank!" Haha. Anyway I was actually wanting to update earlier, it's just the title where I was dissecting about alot. Yea, I was practically thinking about the correct title for this blog for some days. Call me a perfectionist, but I feel if you wanna write about an article or post, the title must be right. It's just like a movie. Titles sometimes intrigue people to watch a movie.
I was asking Dom but he misunderstood me. He thought I wanna the title for my blog page where he was saying, "Do not offer me a comb!" That was hillarious but when I told him that actually it's the title, he too was laughing. It's typical of Dom to think differently, in a joking manner actually because that dude is a typical joker. His way of thinking differently to come up with a joke is awesome. Plus he's witty as well. Which chick doesn't wanna the combo in a dude? Oh yea I forgot. It's women we are talking about. Known for complications. Haha. Alright ladies, no hard feelings, ain't a sexist as well. But it's kind of a fact isn't it? As I was showering today, I came up with the title. Funny place to get stuff like that eh? But maybe even Einstein came up with the last formula to make the Atomic bomb while he's answering nature's call? Who knows?
So you must me wondering what's up with the weigh topic right? It feels damn right, the title. I wanted to talk about something really badly, you know to help couples or should I even say 'going to be couples' too. Applicable for everyone. You guys may go, "What do you know about relationships? You are not even attached." Hell yea, I am not and I am not intending to be soon because I love women so much that it's tough to practice monogamy. Haha! Alright that was a joke but this is the truth. I get experienced through other people's experiences.
I need to ask a question to you people. When a man is attached to a woman, does that mean he forgets his friends? Does that mean she becomes his everything? Like if he gotta go somewhere, it's always she who's tagging? It always a 'she' 'she' and 'she'. The same goes to ladies. Is it always a 'he' 'he' and 'he'? I'm being frank here. I'll get literally bored. No offense to the couples out there, but I am being serious here and normally when the above happens, that's how couples cheat each other, that's how they end the relationship with each other, that's how a sweet relationship turns sour. Maybe you people will go, "Wait till you are in a relationship, then you'll be the same". No. I won't. I would never do what most couples do. Why do these problems start? I give you an example.
Fred(not his real name), happen to be dating this girl called Mona(Not her real name). They were so in love with each other and doing things basically with each other all the time. Eat together, go to school together, go back home together and basically see each other every single day. They call the first three months the 'honey moon' period right? So what happens once the three months end? Fred happen to get busy with school work and he realized seeing his girlfriend everyday was a chore and not like going to heaven. It's no more 'to the moon and back' but 'to the hell and back'. He became bored seeing his gf. He lost his close buddies where once they go "through thick and thin", because he was avoiding them once he gotta attached. So what happen? Well, he started avoiding his gf, not totally but because 'now' he needed his friends. He started telling lots of fibs to his gf just not to meet her all the time. His gf became confused with her bf. She started becoming possessive and keep asking him, "What's wrong?" and also, "Do you still love me?" He became depressed and she became depressed. I saw him online in Msn the other day and he came talking to me. I happen to know him and his gf and I know this would happen between them.
"Dude, it's not that I don't like her, though she is questioning my loyalty and love for her nowadays. It's just that a man needs his space. You, I and she needs her space. We all need it. She's sticking to me like glue and I feel uncomfortable." From the way he write, I know he is feeling tensed. I replied him sarcastically, "Dude, wow. You are speaking so wisely now. If only you have practiced it earlier, you wouldn't be in this shit. " Then Fred said, "Dude, help me. I love her but I need my space. I have been lying to her a lot, just to avoid her but I don't want to. What can I do?"
Women, by and large, are more perceptive than men. They can instantly identify insincerity and bullshit. So to make a lie 'believable', a guy has to be a real actor but the question is even though he is one, how long can he concoct? Fred's gf wasn't the only one at fault, but Fred himself was the culprit. The reason why his gf became demanding and possessive was because of him. He played the 'game' with her together . He 'give in' to her in everything. Like going to school, eating and seeing her all the time. So what happens when suddenly he stops? She will definitely find it odd. She can't accept Fred's attitude. She becomes melodramatic. It's not her fault. It's Fred who started it. The more Fred gives in to her, the more she becomes demanding. It's not only women. It's Men as well. Most humans tend to take advantage of something when everything is falling on their laps. They take things for granted. Like Fred, he nearly lost his buddies. Why is it when one is attached, the friends suffer the consequences? Why are the friends punished for no freaking reason? You mean to tell me, friends are just there to pass time and once getting attached, friends are forgotten? But I thought the friends came first before the 'significant other' ? So you only go back to your friends if you happen to have problems in your relationship? That's fucking selfish. What do you take friends for? A ride?
I am going to tell you people what one gotta do when you are in a relationship or going to be in a relationship. I may be wrong and some might hit me with coarse languages now but this is how I feel.
1)Do not see your other gf or bf every single day. You'll get bored. Trust me. We all do so don't fib with me.
2) Do not do every single thing with your gf or bf. True, couples do most things together but refrain from it.
3) Do not forget your friends. Your true pals will always be there for you. Never forget them. Never take them for a ride.
4) Do not talk in the phone the whole day with your gf or bf. I see my cousin doing that with his gf most of the time and I wonder if he'll ever get bored and become dehydrated. I am not saying not to speak with your partner. Speak, but minimize it to maybe 30mins per day? Or the most, 1 hour.
5) Please for God's sake, give each other your space, male and female. All of us need our space or we'll feel uncomfortable.
6) Try to see your partner once or twice a week because you'll definitely be eager to see them.
I advised Fred from to do all the above, I have explained. But first I told him to go and have an open chat with his gf. Tell him how he feels and what they should do. He's doing that now and he claims him seeing his gf on Fri, make him excited. The more you delay from doing or seeing something or someone( I mean the things you want to do), the more you wanna see or do it. So challenge yourself. In future, when I get my gf, I'll explain this terms to her. Alright don't say terms because it sounds like a treaty. Haha. Just say something both of us should talk about and understand and do it. So anybody wanna be my gf? I am sorry, I don't practice monogamy. Haha.
I was asking Dom but he misunderstood me. He thought I wanna the title for my blog page where he was saying, "Do not offer me a comb!" That was hillarious but when I told him that actually it's the title, he too was laughing. It's typical of Dom to think differently, in a joking manner actually because that dude is a typical joker. His way of thinking differently to come up with a joke is awesome. Plus he's witty as well. Which chick doesn't wanna the combo in a dude? Oh yea I forgot. It's women we are talking about. Known for complications. Haha. Alright ladies, no hard feelings, ain't a sexist as well. But it's kind of a fact isn't it? As I was showering today, I came up with the title. Funny place to get stuff like that eh? But maybe even Einstein came up with the last formula to make the Atomic bomb while he's answering nature's call? Who knows?
So you must me wondering what's up with the weigh topic right? It feels damn right, the title. I wanted to talk about something really badly, you know to help couples or should I even say 'going to be couples' too. Applicable for everyone. You guys may go, "What do you know about relationships? You are not even attached." Hell yea, I am not and I am not intending to be soon because I love women so much that it's tough to practice monogamy. Haha! Alright that was a joke but this is the truth. I get experienced through other people's experiences.
I need to ask a question to you people. When a man is attached to a woman, does that mean he forgets his friends? Does that mean she becomes his everything? Like if he gotta go somewhere, it's always she who's tagging? It always a 'she' 'she' and 'she'. The same goes to ladies. Is it always a 'he' 'he' and 'he'? I'm being frank here. I'll get literally bored. No offense to the couples out there, but I am being serious here and normally when the above happens, that's how couples cheat each other, that's how they end the relationship with each other, that's how a sweet relationship turns sour. Maybe you people will go, "Wait till you are in a relationship, then you'll be the same". No. I won't. I would never do what most couples do. Why do these problems start? I give you an example.
Fred(not his real name), happen to be dating this girl called Mona(Not her real name). They were so in love with each other and doing things basically with each other all the time. Eat together, go to school together, go back home together and basically see each other every single day. They call the first three months the 'honey moon' period right? So what happens once the three months end? Fred happen to get busy with school work and he realized seeing his girlfriend everyday was a chore and not like going to heaven. It's no more 'to the moon and back' but 'to the hell and back'. He became bored seeing his gf. He lost his close buddies where once they go "through thick and thin", because he was avoiding them once he gotta attached. So what happen? Well, he started avoiding his gf, not totally but because 'now' he needed his friends. He started telling lots of fibs to his gf just not to meet her all the time. His gf became confused with her bf. She started becoming possessive and keep asking him, "What's wrong?" and also, "Do you still love me?" He became depressed and she became depressed. I saw him online in Msn the other day and he came talking to me. I happen to know him and his gf and I know this would happen between them.
"Dude, it's not that I don't like her, though she is questioning my loyalty and love for her nowadays. It's just that a man needs his space. You, I and she needs her space. We all need it. She's sticking to me like glue and I feel uncomfortable." From the way he write, I know he is feeling tensed. I replied him sarcastically, "Dude, wow. You are speaking so wisely now. If only you have practiced it earlier, you wouldn't be in this shit. " Then Fred said, "Dude, help me. I love her but I need my space. I have been lying to her a lot, just to avoid her but I don't want to. What can I do?"
Women, by and large, are more perceptive than men. They can instantly identify insincerity and bullshit. So to make a lie 'believable', a guy has to be a real actor but the question is even though he is one, how long can he concoct? Fred's gf wasn't the only one at fault, but Fred himself was the culprit. The reason why his gf became demanding and possessive was because of him. He played the 'game' with her together . He 'give in' to her in everything. Like going to school, eating and seeing her all the time. So what happens when suddenly he stops? She will definitely find it odd. She can't accept Fred's attitude. She becomes melodramatic. It's not her fault. It's Fred who started it. The more Fred gives in to her, the more she becomes demanding. It's not only women. It's Men as well. Most humans tend to take advantage of something when everything is falling on their laps. They take things for granted. Like Fred, he nearly lost his buddies. Why is it when one is attached, the friends suffer the consequences? Why are the friends punished for no freaking reason? You mean to tell me, friends are just there to pass time and once getting attached, friends are forgotten? But I thought the friends came first before the 'significant other' ? So you only go back to your friends if you happen to have problems in your relationship? That's fucking selfish. What do you take friends for? A ride?
I am going to tell you people what one gotta do when you are in a relationship or going to be in a relationship. I may be wrong and some might hit me with coarse languages now but this is how I feel.
1)Do not see your other gf or bf every single day. You'll get bored. Trust me. We all do so don't fib with me.
2) Do not do every single thing with your gf or bf. True, couples do most things together but refrain from it.
3) Do not forget your friends. Your true pals will always be there for you. Never forget them. Never take them for a ride.
4) Do not talk in the phone the whole day with your gf or bf. I see my cousin doing that with his gf most of the time and I wonder if he'll ever get bored and become dehydrated. I am not saying not to speak with your partner. Speak, but minimize it to maybe 30mins per day? Or the most, 1 hour.
5) Please for God's sake, give each other your space, male and female. All of us need our space or we'll feel uncomfortable.
6) Try to see your partner once or twice a week because you'll definitely be eager to see them.
I advised Fred from to do all the above, I have explained. But first I told him to go and have an open chat with his gf. Tell him how he feels and what they should do. He's doing that now and he claims him seeing his gf on Fri, make him excited. The more you delay from doing or seeing something or someone( I mean the things you want to do), the more you wanna see or do it. So challenge yourself. In future, when I get my gf, I'll explain this terms to her. Alright don't say terms because it sounds like a treaty. Haha. Just say something both of us should talk about and understand and do it. So anybody wanna be my gf? I am sorry, I don't practice monogamy. Haha.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Brawns
I was in the Bus 39 today and I was analyzing how fit I was during the national service days. I use to be 79kg when I went in the national service so coming down to 66kg was a major achievement and I was fit. In fact you can even see my abs on my belly. I wouldn't say they were fully develop but I had 4 of them. The last two was tough to achieve because I do have excess fats. If I had fully concentrated in my workouts, I would have achieved them but I lost my concentration and discipline. Damn. Now you can hardly see the abs. I told myself I need to get back to NS fitness. In fact even fitter than that. I always wanna abs and pecs. Not exactly for the women but mostly for myself. And I wanna fit my body into a white T-shirt and blue jeans. The hunky and lean type of look.
I realized I have become lazier and it's time to start the ball rolling with my workouts. Of course, my diet is also important. I need to be more discipline now. If I wanna a body, it most probably will be like Tyrese. (The dude who acted in 2 fast 2 furious). I remember there was one part of the movie where he took of his start and all the women go "WOW!". Haha. Anyway, I am gonna use him as a motivation. Time to Rock and Roll.
Here are two pictures of him..
I realized I have become lazier and it's time to start the ball rolling with my workouts. Of course, my diet is also important. I need to be more discipline now. If I wanna a body, it most probably will be like Tyrese. (The dude who acted in 2 fast 2 furious). I remember there was one part of the movie where he took of his start and all the women go "WOW!". Haha. Anyway, I am gonna use him as a motivation. Time to Rock and Roll.
Here are two pictures of him..
Monday, October 8, 2007
Embrace or Smooch?
Hey. What's up to all the amigos and amigas? Just to inform all those caring and loving people out there, I'm doing fine. I guess my departure on Tuesday was rather alarming isn't it? Well, yea, I was going through stress, to put it in short. Feeling uncomfortable rather lately because of some various reasons and after a good chat with a good friend of mine, a psychologist and a facilitator in school, I am doing fine. I guess everyone go through shitty times and mine just happen lately. I gotta say it was a hell of a period and I'm still recovering(I will be lying if I said I had fully recovered) and wanting to think and be positive all the time. I guess in life we gotta face the good and the bad and it's inevitable. We can't run away from it no matter where we wanna hide.
Anyway, today is my pleasure to talk about something I experience a few days ago and it made wanna write about it in this post. Funny, a small incident can make you analyze alot. Don't you think so? The wonders of our mind. Back to the topic, I was in Bus 81, with my maternal side cousin heading down to Kovan Bus-stop(the stop where it leads to Kovan Mrt Station). We were sitting at the back seat with a woman who was carrying one young child, sleeping, on her chest while two other children sleeping on the seat beside her. The kids look rather exhausted. To dissect the long story a little, the mum and I began chatting. She was asking us where we were alighting so we claim it's the Kovan Bus-stop. A smile came to her face because she was alighting at the same bus-stop. She then asked both my cousin and I, a favor which we never would have expected and truthfully both of us were taken aback. Since she was carrying one child on her arms, she asked us to carry the other female child sleeping on the seat.(The third child woke up in the midst of the conversation and my cousin heaved a sigh of relief because he was rather coy in carrying a child and the knucklehead was looking at me with the pity plus cheeky look which showed "Hey, you are gonna carry the child.) I admit I was erm uncomfortable initially carrying an unknown kid and I was thinking really deeply how to pick the kid up carefully and not spoil her beauty sleep which might piss her off if I did and kick me in the nuts. Haha. Okay that is an overstatement but it is possible.:) The bus-stop came and I picked the kid from the seat. Guess what? After instantly picking her up, I don't regret it anymore. I felt so good because she was really hugging me so tightly. Like a big bear hug. She curled her hands around my neck so tightly like her whole life is safe with me. I really love the feeling. And no friends, I ain't a pedophile. So if your crude mind is going into that, halt! I just love the feeling of a great hug. It's like your miseries can be forgotten in a second by just a hug. I realize how much I have missed a hug from someone. The last time I got a hug was from a close female friend whom I have not met up after so long and she's gonna murder me if I still delay in not seeing her. Haha. That hug she gave me was a friendly one, not exactly a bear hug but still it was good but cannot beat the kid's one. Haha, sorry Yenn, pal.
I was later pondering in the evening, am I a hugging sort of person or the kissing sort. Like for example if you are in a relationship, do you prefer a hug or a kiss? Difficult to choose eh? Let me guess most of you guys would prefer a passionate kiss or the one where you actually devour each other mouths grossly right? Haha, that was crude. Sure a great kiss puts you in the mood or should I say lustly mood? The one where testosterone levels rises really high up. But that is when you share an intimate moment right? Is there such thing as a intimate hug? Hmm, I ain't sure but if there was I am sure groping comes in as well. Let me recall back. The part where I was kissed by a chick. I didn't feel so great after the kiss. I mean it kind of seem weird because one, she was a friend's sister who kissed me on the cheek and I was really feeling awkward because I didn't expect it and it my close pal's sister! My pal didn't know it and I also don't have the intention to tell him. The kiss didn't make my day. I wasn't smiling like posing for Colgate. The only feeling I got was, it was wet. Haha. So here I am with my verdict, I prefer hugging anytime than a smacker. A great hug makes you feel like you can achieve anything in the world. It's like a good drug which makes you feel high. That's the feeling I wanna.
In truth we humans need human contact. It is scientifically proven all living things need contact. We are programmed that way by the divine God. The only reason we humans are preventing ourselves from hugging each other is because of the way our brain thinks sexually all the damn time when for example an opposite or same gender hugs one another. Automatically our brain relates to something sexual and being in the Asian Society, we hardly hug people unlike the Westerners. They hug and even kiss each other on the cheeks. In theory that should be the way. We should show our affection to our friends or anyone we happen to meet. In this way, we are not only showing people, we are their friends but we are showing love to human nature as well. Imagine if all the leaders of the world who happen to get themselves in a verbal conflict and the only way to solve the problem is through hugging. Now, don't you think our world would be a great, peaceful place if that happens? No more conflicts and once when cool is lost by someone automatically give the person a bear hug and the setback would be solved. Awesome eh?
After the incident, I was telling to my cousin about the sensation of a great hug and he too agreed that a good hug makes one day and true enough, I was basically smiling the whole day and feeling all lively. Even my mum was asking why I was feeling so delirious. Even as I am writing this post, I can't prevent myself from forgetting the incident. Hug buddy? Anyone?:)
Anyway, today is my pleasure to talk about something I experience a few days ago and it made wanna write about it in this post. Funny, a small incident can make you analyze alot. Don't you think so? The wonders of our mind. Back to the topic, I was in Bus 81, with my maternal side cousin heading down to Kovan Bus-stop(the stop where it leads to Kovan Mrt Station). We were sitting at the back seat with a woman who was carrying one young child, sleeping, on her chest while two other children sleeping on the seat beside her. The kids look rather exhausted. To dissect the long story a little, the mum and I began chatting. She was asking us where we were alighting so we claim it's the Kovan Bus-stop. A smile came to her face because she was alighting at the same bus-stop. She then asked both my cousin and I, a favor which we never would have expected and truthfully both of us were taken aback. Since she was carrying one child on her arms, she asked us to carry the other female child sleeping on the seat.(The third child woke up in the midst of the conversation and my cousin heaved a sigh of relief because he was rather coy in carrying a child and the knucklehead was looking at me with the pity plus cheeky look which showed "Hey, you are gonna carry the child.) I admit I was erm uncomfortable initially carrying an unknown kid and I was thinking really deeply how to pick the kid up carefully and not spoil her beauty sleep which might piss her off if I did and kick me in the nuts. Haha. Okay that is an overstatement but it is possible.:) The bus-stop came and I picked the kid from the seat. Guess what? After instantly picking her up, I don't regret it anymore. I felt so good because she was really hugging me so tightly. Like a big bear hug. She curled her hands around my neck so tightly like her whole life is safe with me. I really love the feeling. And no friends, I ain't a pedophile. So if your crude mind is going into that, halt! I just love the feeling of a great hug. It's like your miseries can be forgotten in a second by just a hug. I realize how much I have missed a hug from someone. The last time I got a hug was from a close female friend whom I have not met up after so long and she's gonna murder me if I still delay in not seeing her. Haha. That hug she gave me was a friendly one, not exactly a bear hug but still it was good but cannot beat the kid's one. Haha, sorry Yenn, pal.
I was later pondering in the evening, am I a hugging sort of person or the kissing sort. Like for example if you are in a relationship, do you prefer a hug or a kiss? Difficult to choose eh? Let me guess most of you guys would prefer a passionate kiss or the one where you actually devour each other mouths grossly right? Haha, that was crude. Sure a great kiss puts you in the mood or should I say lustly mood? The one where testosterone levels rises really high up. But that is when you share an intimate moment right? Is there such thing as a intimate hug? Hmm, I ain't sure but if there was I am sure groping comes in as well. Let me recall back. The part where I was kissed by a chick. I didn't feel so great after the kiss. I mean it kind of seem weird because one, she was a friend's sister who kissed me on the cheek and I was really feeling awkward because I didn't expect it and it my close pal's sister! My pal didn't know it and I also don't have the intention to tell him. The kiss didn't make my day. I wasn't smiling like posing for Colgate. The only feeling I got was, it was wet. Haha. So here I am with my verdict, I prefer hugging anytime than a smacker. A great hug makes you feel like you can achieve anything in the world. It's like a good drug which makes you feel high. That's the feeling I wanna.
In truth we humans need human contact. It is scientifically proven all living things need contact. We are programmed that way by the divine God. The only reason we humans are preventing ourselves from hugging each other is because of the way our brain thinks sexually all the damn time when for example an opposite or same gender hugs one another. Automatically our brain relates to something sexual and being in the Asian Society, we hardly hug people unlike the Westerners. They hug and even kiss each other on the cheeks. In theory that should be the way. We should show our affection to our friends or anyone we happen to meet. In this way, we are not only showing people, we are their friends but we are showing love to human nature as well. Imagine if all the leaders of the world who happen to get themselves in a verbal conflict and the only way to solve the problem is through hugging. Now, don't you think our world would be a great, peaceful place if that happens? No more conflicts and once when cool is lost by someone automatically give the person a bear hug and the setback would be solved. Awesome eh?
After the incident, I was telling to my cousin about the sensation of a great hug and he too agreed that a good hug makes one day and true enough, I was basically smiling the whole day and feeling all lively. Even my mum was asking why I was feeling so delirious. Even as I am writing this post, I can't prevent myself from forgetting the incident. Hug buddy? Anyone?:)
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Random test.
Okay. I was bored so I did some interesting test today which was posted online by some people from other countries. First is "The intellectual Sexiness" test, second is "The nerd, geek or dork" test and the third is "The how fuckable how are you" test. The third sounds abit crude but come on. We definitely wanna do the test somehow if we manage to come across these kinds of test so don't fib to me! Haha.
You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 72!
You're hot! You've read a lot. You've done a lot, and there's a lot you'd like to try in the future. You've got a sharp, sexy mind, and few inhibitions to restrain you from exploring all the pleasure you can get. You have few hang-ups, and there's not much you don't know about sex. You're open-minded and able to enjoy things that would make a lesser person squeamish. You're an exceptional treat as a lover, appreciated greatly by those who know the differnce. You were probably bored with a few of the people you've been with in your past, feeling like you had to drag them along with you in the sexual adventures you want to have, and probably dumping them for the same reason. It takes a lot to stimulate you; you realize it's not just about bumping uglies. In the end there's gotta be a lot more to it. Still, there is always room for improvement. Before you can graduate into a true sexual genius, there are a few things you've got to learn, to explore, to think through, talk through, and fuck through. A good place to start is in taking a look at the few things you're still a little hesitant to try. Break down you're last few barriers and discover the outer sexual frontiers, and you'll become a master.
A Geek is someone who is passionate about some particular area or subject, often an obscure or difficult one.
A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions.
You scored less than half in all three, earning you the title of: Joe Normal.
This is not to say that you don't have some Nerd, Geek or Dork inside of you--we all do, and you can see the percentages you have right above. This is just to say that none of those qualities stand out so much as to define you. Sure, you enjoy an episode of Star Trek now and again, and yeah, you kinda enjoyed a few classes back in the day. And, once in a while, you stumble while walking down the street even though there was nothing there to cause you to trip. But, for the most part, you look and act fairly typically, and aren't much of an outcast.
You're about as fuckable as most people, which is not bad. Actually, it's quite healthy! You know how to act and what's appropriate. You know when it's the time and place for what. And people can use that to see you erotically. It's no surprise that you can attract a good number of people. You're what they want! A realistic babe who knows when to get a bit wild! Yeah, I'd fuck you!
You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 72!
You're hot! You've read a lot. You've done a lot, and there's a lot you'd like to try in the future. You've got a sharp, sexy mind, and few inhibitions to restrain you from exploring all the pleasure you can get. You have few hang-ups, and there's not much you don't know about sex. You're open-minded and able to enjoy things that would make a lesser person squeamish. You're an exceptional treat as a lover, appreciated greatly by those who know the differnce. You were probably bored with a few of the people you've been with in your past, feeling like you had to drag them along with you in the sexual adventures you want to have, and probably dumping them for the same reason. It takes a lot to stimulate you; you realize it's not just about bumping uglies. In the end there's gotta be a lot more to it. Still, there is always room for improvement. Before you can graduate into a true sexual genius, there are a few things you've got to learn, to explore, to think through, talk through, and fuck through. A good place to start is in taking a look at the few things you're still a little hesitant to try. Break down you're last few barriers and discover the outer sexual frontiers, and you'll become a master.Your Score: Joe Normal
34 % Nerd, 21% Geek, 8% Dork
A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions.
You scored less than half in all three, earning you the title of: Joe Normal.
This is not to say that you don't have some Nerd, Geek or Dork inside of you--we all do, and you can see the percentages you have right above. This is just to say that none of those qualities stand out so much as to define you. Sure, you enjoy an episode of Star Trek now and again, and yeah, you kinda enjoyed a few classes back in the day. And, once in a while, you stumble while walking down the street even though there was nothing there to cause you to trip. But, for the most part, you look and act fairly typically, and aren't much of an outcast.
Your Score: " The good fuck"
You are 67 fuckable!
Monday, September 24, 2007
TOP 10 MUSCLES WOMEN LOVE
Alright guys. This is another interesting thing I've read from Men's Health and for those guys who are trying to built muscles. Wait a min.. What those guys, it's for all guys! Concentrate on these muscles if you wanna any women checking you secretly or directly. :) But first dudes, start pumping the irons and most importantly, DO IT FOR YOURSELF.
Cheers Bros.
TOP 10 MUSCLES WOMEN LOVE
1) Six-pack abs. You could have biceps the size of bowling balls, but if you've got the beginnings of a gut, any discriminating woman will think twice before considering you boyfriend material. Their fear: A little excess midriff meat now means one fat, sloppy bastard in 10 years.
2) Powerful forearms. Women see strong forearms and think you can do everything: Fend off a mugger, build a house, and maintain a dexterous touch long enough to leave them extremely satisfied. So roll up those sleeves, and let 'em have a look.
3) A nice butt. Women check out your butt because it's a clue to your worthiness as a physical specimen. If you're in great shape, it carries high. Otherwise, your rear end droops like a sack of old potatoes. Old, hairy potatoes.
4) A broad back. A wide back is essential for a V-shaped torso, and women's attraction to it is ancestral. "When it was important that our mates protect us from woolly mammoths on the plains, we looked for a gene pool that could provide us with protection," says Pega Ren, Ed.D., a sexologist in British Columbia.
5) Sculpted shoulders. "The shoulder muscles are really the muscles of love and war," says Nancy Etcoff, Ph.D., author of Survival of the Prettiest. They also make the whole look when combined with a broad back. Strong shoulders literally sweep women off their feet.
6) Rock hard calves. "Women want an overall sense of strength and fitness," says Etcoff. "If a man looks as if he can lift something but can't run, it looks disproportionate."
7) The money line. We're not convinced that's its official name, but here's how our female friends describe it: "The muscle that runs diagonally from hip to crotch," "The muscle that sticks out near the hips--yummy!" and "Lower abs, near his package."
8) A big chest. "Women treasure your chest as much as you do theirs," says Emily Dubberley, a sex expert based in the UK. "Touching, kissing, and licking a man's chest is undoubtedly a turn-on for most women." (I Didn't know women love to lick a men's chest!)
9) Large biceps. In a poll of Cosmopolitan readers, 1 out of 5 women confessed that nice biceps on a man makes them "absolutely melt."
10) Strong hamstrings. Many women prefer being on top because it lets them lean forward to rub against your pubic bone. Having well-conditioned hamstrings and glutes makes it easier to meet her halfway for more pleasure.
Friday, September 21, 2007
50 Things Men Wish Women Knew
I was reading Men's Health Magazine and yea, there are hell of interesting stuff in the magazine. This is one of the best magazine's for any male living in this world because not only do they teach how to lose weight, dress up, work out, but also to understand the most interesting species in the world, Women. The wonders of a Women's mind. It's always a tough one to crack eh guys? So guys if you ain't gotten this mag, please do yourself a favour and go get one. Be it, Singapore version or American version(I prefer this) and trust me, you will be inspired to work out and wanting to look good.
Yea, as I was saying I was reading the Men's Health mag when I came by this topic which I feel any women should know which will make your understand your boyfriends or male buddies(only some for these guys) better. Have fun reading and peace people.
50 Things Men Wish Women Knew
4. If you think I’m speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.
5. If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.
6. Shopping is a chore, not an activity.
7. When I screw up, go ahead and tell me--once.
8. No question need ever be asked through a closed bathroom door if I'm inside. I love you less with each syllable you utter.
9. I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.
10. My guy friends. Not only are they not negotiable, they’re your best sign that I’m not a whack job.
11. Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.
12. Leave the eyebrows alone. Plucked ain't pretty.
13. You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously.
14. When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down.
15. I don't ask for directions because I’m just happy to be driving. Anywhere.
16. Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.
17. We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.
18. But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?
19. There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm.
20. Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too.
21. I just may lie to make you feel good. Don’t be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.
22. When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, I question your intelligence.
23. You’re really bad at faking it.
24. If I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you’re late.
25. Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make u even more late.
26. Giving me two or three choices, however, can be fun. Assuming you will change outfits in front of me. Slowly.
Yea, as I was saying I was reading the Men's Health mag when I came by this topic which I feel any women should know which will make your understand your boyfriends or male buddies(only some for these guys) better. Have fun reading and peace people.
50 Things Men Wish Women Knew
1. Express yourself. It makes us proud, even if someone thinks you're wrong.
2. You look hot in running shoes and shorts. And that top thingy with the stripes.
3. Bare, tan shoulders are underrated.4. If you think I’m speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.
5. If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.
6. Shopping is a chore, not an activity.
7. When I screw up, go ahead and tell me--once.
8. No question need ever be asked through a closed bathroom door if I'm inside. I love you less with each syllable you utter.
9. I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.
10. My guy friends. Not only are they not negotiable, they’re your best sign that I’m not a whack job.
11. Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.
12. Leave the eyebrows alone. Plucked ain't pretty.
13. You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously.
14. When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down.
15. I don't ask for directions because I’m just happy to be driving. Anywhere.
16. Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.
17. We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.
18. But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?
19. There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm.
20. Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too.
21. I just may lie to make you feel good. Don’t be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.
22. When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, I question your intelligence.
23. You’re really bad at faking it.
24. If I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you’re late.
25. Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make u even more late.
26. Giving me two or three choices, however, can be fun. Assuming you will change outfits in front of me. Slowly.
27. Err on the side of hot; I love to show you off.
28. We can't utter the words "I love you" easily. It's not that we don't like you or we won't be with you but most of us are just not programmed that way. The word "I love you" is pretty strong for us so when we say it, we mean it.
29. When you call us at work "just to chat," we're not really listening; we're checking our e-mail.
30. Spring means baseball and skirts. Doesn't need to be a mini-skirt; it's been a long winter.
31. Chicks who drink beer are hot. Better yet: chicks who drink beer and watch the game. Better still: chicks who buy us a beer during the game.
32. We don't mind being told we look good. Just don't call it a "cute outfit."
33. We love ponytails.
34. Being good in bed means a) enthusiasm; b) a sense of humor; and sometimes c) patience.
35. The first time? We're as nervous as you are
36. A random unexpected grope is always welcome, even in public. Especially in public.
37. Make us laugh and we'll want to hang around.
38. Yes, I laugh really loud around the guys. And I always will, so deal.
39. Sure, men stereotypically like to solve a woman's problems. But a woman who solves her own while we watch? Instant erection.
40. You can pick the movie, but have a reason.
41. Do not expect to have a conversation via text message unless you use the words "naked" and "waiting."
42. Sometimes we wonder why any woman would want to be with us, much less someone as amazing as you. So, thanks.
43. Anytime you cook for us, we're happy.
44. If you can hit a golf ball 150 yards, we just might fall in love.
45. No, I don't remember what he said next. Or she. Or anybody, for that matter. I'm a guy, not a tape recorder.
46. We love you even more because you know we need to go out with the guys once in a while.
47. And we love it when you hang with us guys, too.
48. We have a keen sense of imminent danger. It sounds like, "Do you think she's pretty?"
49. Don't rely on us for keeping you up on the news.
50. Never say, "I know you better than you know yourself." Nobody does.
Friday, September 14, 2007
Dirty Look
Yo friends. It's been long since I last updated. Have been sick for bloody long and trust me, this is the first time and yea it was horrible. I found out my new class happens to be W24C and yea my dear pal Emily, is still sticking with me. Wonder if she ever thought that was a curse or gift. :)
Anyway I have been growing my beard, mustache and hair(Okay! Let's not get too excited. It's just tumbleweeds so far.) for a week and yea I was thinking about having a new change in terms of my outlook. Trust me. It sucks to the core. Haha. I mean, my sis and some female friends was claiming they like guys with the 'dirty look' so I was thinking to myself and saying, "Why not i try it?" plus it's the vacations. I took a shot of my new 'dirty look' and tell you what. Even I was disgusted with it. The new look.. Ain't for me! I look like the most wanted criminal. Wait that's an understatement. I look like a RAPIST! You know the dirty, gross, smelly beer drinking rapist? Yea, that's about it. Now imagine how I'll look without shaving for a week and growing little bits of hair on my noggin before you see the picture below. REMEMBER! This ain't for the weak hearted and please friends, consume your food before you see the pic. Haha. Have a good one people. Till then, later.
Anyway I have been growing my beard, mustache and hair(Okay! Let's not get too excited. It's just tumbleweeds so far.) for a week and yea I was thinking about having a new change in terms of my outlook. Trust me. It sucks to the core. Haha. I mean, my sis and some female friends was claiming they like guys with the 'dirty look' so I was thinking to myself and saying, "Why not i try it?" plus it's the vacations. I took a shot of my new 'dirty look' and tell you what. Even I was disgusted with it. The new look.. Ain't for me! I look like the most wanted criminal. Wait that's an understatement. I look like a RAPIST! You know the dirty, gross, smelly beer drinking rapist? Yea, that's about it. Now imagine how I'll look without shaving for a week and growing little bits of hair on my noggin before you see the picture below. REMEMBER! This ain't for the weak hearted and please friends, consume your food before you see the pic. Haha. Have a good one people. Till then, later.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Sentosa
Hello Folks. Back to blogging again. Was out with W25C and it was awesome people! We went to Siloso Beach and it was hell of a day. The weather wasn't as friendly in the morning but it turned out well around 1plus. There were suppose to be more people coming but in the end, these guys either got themselves ill or ditched us the last minute. Sigh!~ But nevertheless, it was still fun with the other guys and Shalene, Junming, Zaneta, Feroze and Fazlan, if only you were here with us, you will know what you missed. The only sad part is...THERE WERE NOT ENOUGH BIKINI BABES!! SIGH!~ Haha.. Anyway check out the pics that were taken on the Sentosa trip..Enjoy!~
Jannah and Jojo fooling around before the trip to Siloso Beach.
Taken while waiting for Farah who is always late..Sigh!~
On the way to Siloso Beach. Some ride from the monorail.
Beauties...................................NOT! Haha..
Damsels in Distress..
Typical Jannah trying to give the flirtatious pose. But it ain't working darling. Oh wait, it did right, no wonder the dude ask for your number. Haha. I wonder what possessed him to ask..:)
I was trying to give a porn star pose but I suck at it.. Haha..
Game Time Baby!
Oh god! Poor Jessie is hurt. And it's because of FARAH! Haha. Well it happens. But Farah told me she felt bad about it..
DUDE!! That's freaking gross man!
Erm.. Guys.. What are you doing actually? Remember no gaying around..Haha..
Caught in the ACT Miss Suling! Hehe..
B-GIRLS! (Vivien and Suling)
EMO Shot..
Goofy Shot..
Domnic portraying a cool pose with "Mary Jane".
Sleepy Sleepy Lucivier..zzzzzzzz....
Sugar and Spice..
There goes my back!
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This little dude.. Cute eh?
Five Ding Dongs.. Hey, finally Jannah is looking pretty! Haha. It's rare cos she hardly smiles..Sigh!~
Bones anyone? Dude, you seriously gotta eat more.. and check out his hairstyle. Haha..
And Dom's hairstyle..
Love you guys.. You will be missed.. Sigh!~ And where the hell is Suling??
Jannah and Jojo fooling around before the trip to Siloso Beach.
Taken while waiting for Farah who is always late..Sigh!~
On the way to Siloso Beach. Some ride from the monorail.
Beauties...................................NOT! Haha..
Damsels in Distress..
Typical Jannah trying to give the flirtatious pose. But it ain't working darling. Oh wait, it did right, no wonder the dude ask for your number. Haha. I wonder what possessed him to ask..:)
I was trying to give a porn star pose but I suck at it.. Haha..
Game Time Baby!
Oh god! Poor Jessie is hurt. And it's because of FARAH! Haha. Well it happens. But Farah told me she felt bad about it..
DUDE!! That's freaking gross man!
Erm.. Guys.. What are you doing actually? Remember no gaying around..Haha..
Caught in the ACT Miss Suling! Hehe..
B-GIRLS! (Vivien and Suling)
EMO Shot..
Goofy Shot..
Domnic portraying a cool pose with "Mary Jane".
Sleepy Sleepy Lucivier..zzzzzzzz....
Sugar and Spice..
There goes my back!.jpg)
This little dude.. Cute eh?
Five Ding Dongs.. Hey, finally Jannah is looking pretty! Haha. It's rare cos she hardly smiles..Sigh!~
Bones anyone? Dude, you seriously gotta eat more.. and check out his hairstyle. Haha..
And Dom's hairstyle..
Love you guys.. You will be missed.. Sigh!~ And where the hell is Suling??
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